I'm a junior in hs, and have struggled with skipping school for 3 years now. I switched to a new school because my grades were so bad. Now I havent been to school in 2 weeks. (I've skipped much longer before.) All I've been doing is staying home, I've started smoking pot (like 5 times in the past week or more), drinking, hanging out, and my boyfriend is way older than me.
Do I sound like I'm headed toward loserville?
2007-11-08 16:00:41 · 10 answers · asked by hellllllo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The funny thing is, i find myself almost completely apathetic. it's a strange thing.
2007-11-08 16:01:58 · update #1
I realize the way I posted this question sounds completely white trash. You have no clue how much that stuns me! Maybe I will start to feel a bit disappointed..
2007-11-08 16:07:39 · update #2
This has nothing to do with my diet. I eat the same foods that I do when I go to school...also I am not fat.
2007-11-09 06:08:11 · update #3
I don't think I'm "cool". And I never said I was proud...
2007-11-09 06:09:26 · update #4
kraphul, This may sound harsh, but you’re headed for serious trouble in the worst way. It’s time to make a dramatic change. You’ve probably heard this a 1,000 times from the adults in your life, but trust me, life is a lot easier when you just follow the rules. Quit smoking pot. It’s keeping you from being yourself. You’re running away from the problems in your life instead of facing them. Life is Hell. There are a few amazing moments that you may get to experience in a lifetime, but not many. Set yourself up for more than average by doing things that will make you healthy mentally and physically. You’re so young. You can do anything that you want. You have the power to accomplish amazing things. I have to tell you that I’m impressed with what you’ve written here. This is a mature question that you’ve asked and it’s important that you realize that something is very wrong. Make an appointment with a psychiatrist or have one of your parents make an appointment. There may be chemical imbalance occurring that a professional can help you overcome. There’s still time to make good choices and live an amazing life. Be strong. Don’t give up on yourself… good luck.
2007-11-08 17:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by humanpixel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You DO know the answer to this question, otherwise you wouldn't be asking it!
Be 16 years old right now!! And NOT a loser 16 year old!! Twenty years from now you will regret your actions, I promise you... You never get these years back, honey... You still have time to fix it and not waste these years!!! A high school diploma is a very valuable thing that most people take for granted, but NO judge or lawyer or doctor or cop or any other respectable position would be ANYWHERE without it... Do it NOW, not when you're 35, divorced with 3.5 kids.... It will serve the rest of your life VERY WELL to do this high school thing right now, while you're young...
Can you imagine living the next 60 years like you're living
RIGHT NOW???? You can get out of it, honey!!!
2007-11-08 16:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by A W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're already a loser. You sound just like 2 of my girls, when we were in high school. Freshmen year came and we all started hanging with the Seniors. 2 of my girls, started cutting classes, school, just wanted to chill (exactly like you).......I would chill but was not going to cut, just to chill. Those 2 friends.....never graduated high school, they ended up on the 6 year plan in high school. lol.....and they THOUGHT they were cool. They say high school makes you or breaks you. Unfortunately for you, it broke you. Here's the sad part about my 2 friends (fyi....they know this).....they can't get good jobs, they can't keep a job, and they are always, always broke!!
You think you are cool now.....in 5 years, you won't think you are so cool. The reality is....everyone who you thought was your friend.....will graduate high school, will go off to college, live the college life, graduate college, and become someone or something, They won't even know you exist. Come your high school reunion.....you'll be the only loser there. Remembering...How you thought you were so cool?
Older boyfriend......Does your boyfriend know he can get in trouble for messing with a 15-16 year old? He loves you so much......THAT HE'S LETTING YOU FAIL. What a man that you got there? You can tell he's a failure himself and he's taking you for the ride. Wake up and smell the coffee honey.....this is your only opportunity to make something of yourself....TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT... I cannot emphasize it enough.
Last but not least....you're smoking weed???? You have plenty of time to be doing that. Finish school, that's the most important thing in life right now. Trust me. My friends were losers then and still fit that category 7 years later.
2007-11-08 16:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i think you should slow down and pay more attention in school.
My older sister is a senior this year and she does a lot of the stuff you do.
Just go to school, do what you have to do.
and then the weekends, or afterschool you can party it up.
:)
Just don't forget about your future and where you're headed and how it will all work out.
2007-11-08 16:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Noodle♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the instant after analyzing your tale, i replaced into like 'wow' for the 1st jiffy. i would be unable to have faith people such as you nevertheless exist. I pray God blesses, encourages and strengthens you. you're uncommon, i'm hoping you realize that. Now, lower back on your question, it rather is what i think of. Your ex of course needs help. he's depressed, bored with life, and don't see something worth to stay for. i do no longer understand why he's like that, yet he in simple terms does not have a care in this international anymore. you're ideal with the aid of asserting God sent you to him. i do no longer understand the way you're gonna do it, yet you basically gotta help him. enable him understand there is a minimum of one guy or woman who nevertheless cares for him in this international. i understand that's no longer ordinary yet please, do no longer provide up on him. Love him like a sister to a brother. help him end taking that drug. it's going to come to a factor that he will ask why you complication approximately him, which you will desire to go away him on my own. tell him you will no longer, somebody cares approximately him too plenty. i do no longer understand in case you're a christian, yet once you're, it is going to likely be plenty extra ideal. He needs direction, and basically God can help him locate it. sturdy success with each and everything.
2016-10-15 13:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definately regret it later in your life. School is the way to have something and be something in life. A clear mind will take you far. A drug and alcohol clouded mind will rob you of your dreams.
2007-11-08 16:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to you, but you are already a loser.
The good news is you will reap exactly what you sow in life and you still have time to turn things around.
You know what you need to do. Now go do it.
Good luck.
2007-11-08 16:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well this has to be a strange post that I question but here it goes. YES cause continue on this path and all you will be is this "white trash" on welfare
2007-11-08 16:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
change your diet to change your life. You probably eat a lot of crap to sap you of your motivation.
2007-11-08 16:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-11-08 16:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by Alex0424 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋