About two weekends ago he cheated on me with his colleague, in our house on our bed. now the guy he cheated on me with tells him he loves him and has given my boyfriend his email passwords. i'm not sure if my b/f went thru his emails. this has caused a huge strain in the relationship. it has become difficult to work on the problem of him cheating. Now he is demanding my email password. He views what the guy he cheated me with did by giving him his passoword as this grand getsure that shows he is pure, and trustworthy. i got no problem giving him my password, but not for the reason that the guy he cheated me with gave him his. i still love my b/f, but now it has become so difficult with this guy in the picture. they go to the same college, they see each other all the time, i dont know what happens when they meet. this weekend they are going on a workshop together. i'm just so lost, hurt. Please advise.
2007-11-08 14:48:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dump him like a hot rock. Pile his clothes on the front step and change the locks. Change your password to something he'll never guess.
Are you weak-willed and stupid, or did you just want to hear us say it? It doesn't matter how your private parts fit or who does what to whom; without trust there can be no love, be you gay, straight or bi.
2007-11-10 03:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You as his spouse and life better half have a ideal to passwords to any and all money owed era. unquestionably it is going to no longer additionally be an argument! it rather isn't your boyfriend, you're no longer dating, your married, your lives are shared as one. as a procedures by using fact the privateness of acquaintances or kin... are those no longer additionally your individuals and kin with the aid of marriage or in any different case? they should not be telling their employer regardless of if it somewhat is definitely so inner maximum! aside of that fact, to tell a married guy or woman some thing and anticipate them to no longer tell their better half is stupid. heavily in marriage their would desire to be no secrets and techniques and no person would desire to anticipate secrets and techniques to be held from an stronger half. It basically creates issues and marriage is already no longer ordinary artwork. Why upload extra undue stresses and pressures? all and sundry that has your ultimate interest as a pair and persons at heart does not positioned the two of you in considered one of those difficulty. That suggested it somewhat is ultimate to no longer talk all and sundry whom isn't latest and shop your nostril out of employer that doesn't have something to do with you. Your husband and with whom he's e-mailing is your employer. If he has no longer something to disguise the password should not be an argument!!!
2016-10-15 13:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Do NOT give him your password! HE is the one with the
IMpure and UNtrustworthy issues. He's a dam cheat!
2. Get rid of him! He had sex in YA'LL'S bed!!??? What
nerve! He might come home with something neither one
of you can wash off!! You don't need diseases.
3. You can do better than him. They will and do spend too
much time together and you will always have doubts. Get
rid of the loser.
2007-11-08 14:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by †..Jetta..† 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My BF and I have been together 6 years and I still lock my PC when I walk away. My emails are none of his business and his are his own business.
Your passwords are private and should stay that way. You can forward anything you want him to see and vice versa.
Edit:
Or yeah... you could just dump his sorry a55
2007-11-08 14:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by xyxoxy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems as if he's trying to make YOU prove that YOU love him more than his affair! It also sounds like he's trying to decide between the two of you, and if there is tension in your relationship, that he's leaning in HIS direction, not yours! I've been where you are...Yes you are hurting, but, it WILL get better...You have to love YOU, and respect yourself to see/realize when you're in a situation like this. As it is, everyone is getting love, EXCEPT you...Love you, and love yourself waaaay more than someone who isn't putting you 1st! Keep loving you and, when you're ready, someone else will, 2 (not lopsidedly)! All the Best to YOU!
2007-11-08 15:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by lil_fem_mommie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre pass word and info is for you ONLY I don't think you should ever give it out they could rip you off. by the way he's no good dump him it will be hard but you need to forget about him and go on with YOUR life
2007-11-08 15:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by dearmeohmy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was very hard to understand but anyway just dump him and move on. He's not worth the trouble if this is the kind of person he is.
2007-11-08 15:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you get all of HIS passwords, etc. and see what he's up to! It sounds like he's the untrustworthy one!
2007-11-08 14:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by lwa519 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dump the loser--he just wants that information to do you dirt.
2007-11-08 15:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don´t do it! This is your privacy. Do you know what he is doing with those? Writing e-mails in your name, ordering things in your name???????????
DON´T BE STUPID
2007-11-09 04:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by finestrat1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋