I'm gay, but not out, theirs a guy i like at my school, i'm not sure if he is gay i get miss signals and can never be sure. He has a girlfriend and doesn't act gay so those are some definate "he's straight" signs, but i seen him staring at me a couple times and on the bus he spreads his legs alot so their touching mine but yeah i still think no he's straight. I text to him on the phone but its always me forcing conversation, i think he thinks im trying to come on to him and doesn't want to talk to me, so i'ma just forget about him and move on, does anyone have advice or things that will help me forget about him and move on.
2007-11-08 14:22:47 · 7 answers · asked by eee1928 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i would ask him but i only see him when were around alot of people and if i do tell him hes could freak out about it and tell everyone and then the whole school would know i'm gay.
2007-11-08 15:11:56 · update #1
ive been through this before, if you want we could talk on IM or something. just message me for it.
2007-11-08 14:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by trl. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing when I was younger. You have to be careful not to fall into this trap. I liked a guy so much and he would say and do little things that made me think he wanted to fool around. He even invited me to spend the night. But all of the time he was just messing around for the heck of it I was falling in love. It really hurt when it came down to realizing that he didn't like me that way. I wanted him so much all I could see was what I wanted to. So the best thing to do is stay away and find something else to do. You might feel a little love sick when you lay in bed at night, so read a book, do something that will distract you and it will go away. But if you keep obsessing about him it will only hurt more. Good luck.
2007-11-08 14:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by s01psb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If you like him I think you should tell him...It could help and if he is gay or bi it could help alot more to know you like him...But if all you want to do is move on then all you can do is chill with ur friends and try to keep ur mind off him...he isnt just gonna pop out of ur head it will take time...
2007-11-08 14:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he moves his legs to touch yours and also has a girl friend------he COULD be AC/DC, what they call BI-sexual, meaning he goes both ways. Just TALK to him and sound him out to see how he feels.
2007-11-08 14:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh everything you said is sooo true.
You should definitely act on that right away.
2007-11-08 14:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Quackenbush 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when all you got to keep is strong
Move along, move along like I know you do
And even when your hope is gone
Move along, move along just to make it through
Move along
Move along
2007-11-08 14:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn.
2007-11-08 14:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Taellyn A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋