was at school one day and my period came i had a pantyliner on just in case. I went and stood up to ask my teacher something (who happens to be really hot and so nice) and my firend ran up behind me and whispered that there was blood all over my butt. I freaked and started crying my teacher came over adn asked me what was wrong and i told him that my period leaked and that i had a huge stain on my butt and that i ddin't have any tampons or pads. He told me to talk to him in the hall so that know one else would hear (like guys and stuff) so that i would feel less embaressed a bunch of guys saw my pants adn started laughing and told everyone. my teacher told them to stop and leave me alone. He told me to calm down and that he would get me a pad from the staffroom and told me to change into my gym shorts.
After that all the guys would laugh at me and make fun of me one guy even came to school the next day and gave me a pad i got really hurt by that and scared.
Should i be embaresed?
2007-11-08 14:10:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
was my teacher mad at me???
2007-11-08 14:11:01 · update #1
hah, sorry but i'm a guy of your probable age. and nah, as long as you're not a jerk, they were just playin. tell them, cuz ususally we don't try to make girls feel bad, just tease with them. the guy who gave you a pad proabably liked you, unless he's like a jerk to you, in which case he was. but don't be embarassed, you'll look back on it and laugh the hell out one day. it's okay. in kindergarden i peed in a unisex bathroom without closing the door, cuz i did that at my house, and this girl had to pee. this was during nap time. she like screamed her guts out. i laugh back upon it all the time. in short, just take it lightly, laugh it off. what would you do if another girl did that?? just except it.
2007-11-08 14:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by 11swim11 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ignore them boys are immature idiots your teacher isnt mad i think he was just rrying to help your period is a way of life it happens but i would suggest always keeping an extra pad or tampon in your bag for emergencys and now to make u feel better ill tell u my horror story which is so much worse than yours
so i was on antiobiotics and my period started no one told me it would be extremly heavy becuase of the antiobitoics so i didnt bring a pad or anything to school just had one overnight pad on becuase that usually lasts throught the school day well i got up to go to the bathroom and i leaked i had dark pants on so no one saw but when i went to the bathroom i had blood from my waistband to the bottoms of my capris and i went ot the nurse and had a hard time talking since i was sobbing then i tied a sweatshirt around me and went into the office and called my mom thing is i went through the sweatshirt so i stained the office chair so they loaned me a sweatshirt andi had to stand outside to wait for my mom since the wouldnt let me sit POINT of this really long and gross story is stuff like this happens all the time u just need to know u are a girl and its inevitable tthat itll happen from time to time so dont worry try to come up with a great come back next time a guy says anything about it and ihope this helps sorry for the long story but i swa just trying to make a point
2007-11-09 11:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Bookybell 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your teacher wasn't mad at you at all. in fact, he sounds very understanding! perhaps more so than any teacher i've ever had. of course you'll be embarrased by this situation, but every girl will get her period at sometime or another. eventually the guys will find that it's pretty stupid to make fun of somebody for something like that. plus, they should have a bit more sympathy once they are all going through the major changes that puberty so lovingly brings upon them lol. i'm sure that they'll be humbled by then =P. guys usually enter puberty a bit later than girls. they won't tease you for very long. i'm sorry that this happened because i'm sure it was an embarrasing situation, but it will pass.
good luck =]
2007-11-08 22:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tomboy with girly tendencies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your teacher being the mature adult he is took care of the situation correct,dont be embaressed because periods are part of being a women, its a very natural thing,,as for those {a holes }that laughed at you dont worry about them they also got mothers and sisters who have periods and one day will have girlfriends who might just have a "period" accident in public they wont find so funny if someone laughed at their loved one...what goes around comes around
2007-11-08 22:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think that the teacher would have been made at you this would happen so often in schools everyday, it is just a matter of helping the child get their pads and go on with life.
don't worry i know of a few kids that have had that happen to them so your not Alon even though the boys at that age are going to be stupid over it but they like you will get over it in time
2007-11-08 23:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your teacher isn't mad at you he was trying to minimize your embarassment. It's your first period and it came by surprise. I am sorry the kids made fun, but that is how people are. You'll live it down. for encouragement, listen to ttb.org. Good luck. Having periods is just part of your life now. They will happen each month. keep some pads in your clothes from now on.
2007-11-08 22:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by stick man 6 · 11⤊ 0⤋
No don't be embarrassed the same happened to me and I was in white trousers! Don't worry it will die down soon! and no it doesn't sound like your teacher was mad at you.
2007-11-09 12:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by x_Smartiiee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your teacher wasnt mad. boys are very immature ignore them something embarrassing will happen to one of them soon enough
this happens to every single woman at some point dont let it bother you. let this be a lesson learned and start tracking your periods and always keep pads in your backpack or purse or even both
2007-11-08 22:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 14⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it was an accident. it happens to all of us. It might scar you for life, but at least try to laugh it off. Also, I'll give you some of my advice. Always keep pads or tampons in your locker or backpack. You never know when your perid might come, be ready. Try to forget about it, laugh it off because maye, when you're a senior, it might be remembered as a funny moment. Laugh it off, don't let embarrasment take over.
2007-11-08 22:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Amaris 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Why is this the 3rd time this story has been typed out on here word from word?
just wondering cause you've asked this 3+ times. Idk if your really asking this or what...
edit: you've asked this 6 times! all of your questions are along the lines of this one, are you some guy that gets off to girls having their period?
2007-11-08 23:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by Zachary 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋