The other day I was chilling out when a good friend of mine [who is homosexual] called me up and told me to go to a website and he sounded really freaked out.
So I type it in, and get kinda mad as it's a gay pron sight and i'm not into that [I'm female, het.]
Then he convinces me to go look at a short vid, and long story short it turns out it stars a friend of ours that is supposedly straight, yet the video is of homosexual intercourse.
So the question is, should I tell the straight/gay friend that we know he's gay?
Is he gay?
['Cause he seems so straight as long as I've know him, he's only dated women! ?!?!]
Also, should I tell him I've seen him in the video?
What should I do, because I'm a little freaked out now!?
2007-11-08 12:20:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok.
you should not. go up to him just like that, mgiht make both of u feel very uncomftorble.
i suggest. u allow your homosexual friend to do the talking, just them to.
and tell him. what eh came across and let them talk ti otu and see what he says.
2007-11-08 12:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ernie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gay Guy Pron
2016-11-11 05:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's BIG money in porn, so lot of straight guys will "top" if the price is right, but if he's "bottoming", then I'd say he's at least bisexual. I don't know if there is a specific curve, but a lot of bi guys that I know prefer women over men, but do enjoy men now and then. Then again, unless you have actually had sex with him, or know women that have, he may in fact be gay. There's no law that says a gay man can't date a woman. Dating doesn't exclusively mean sex. He might just like going out with women, but prefers to have sex with men. Either way, it's his issue, not yours. So unless he feels like "coming out", leave it alone. Could it be that you are attracted to him and feel let down ? I suppose if it's really bothering you THAT much, you could just take him aside and ask him if he wants to f**k - but be careful what you wish for, as the saying goes. In the end though, it's HIS sex life, not your's. Not everyone wants their sex life to be an open book.
2007-11-08 12:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Victor 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mutual friend may not even be homosexual... while it's possible, a lot of porn is also "gay for pay". There is a specific genre of straight young men who have same-sex intercourse for pay, because they're low on cash or something.
You could tell him, or you could leave the matter alone. On the one hand, you could tell him and let him know that if he needs cash, you can lend him some, or that you're concerned about him being in porn. On the other hand, you may wish to keep quiet because that's kind of an embarrassing thing to say and hear, even between friends.
Personally, I'd tell my friend, but the different things are better for different people.
2007-11-08 12:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not weird. Ignorant people might say that because they don't understand how there are some people out there who think for themselves and don't feel the need to avoid other people that are different from them. You are lucky to have straight guy friends that don't shun you because your gay. Many gays from previous generations before yours were (and still are) often and regularly bullied and disrespected by straight boys. Society is slowly changing.
2016-04-03 02:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are several answers to this: hey might be gay. He might be bisexual. What i think is probably the most likely answer, especially if the site is "straight on gay" things, he is gay strictly for pay.
Straight guys who do homosexual porn usually get paid a HELL of a lot more than they would when having sex with a woman. He might be doing that.
And, you don't HAVE to do anything. Unless it'll be completely awkward every time you see him, if you don't want to bring it up, you don't have to. And, you should probably handle this as delicately as possible.
Ask him in private, with either just you or you and your friend in a private setting. Tell him you are just curious and aren't judging him, and let things flow.
2007-11-08 12:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by bishonenofcacophony 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because he was in a video doesn't necessarily mean he is gay. He could still be straight or bi, but gay is a definite possibility too.
If he's your friend at all, I don't think you should confront him about this. Seems like that would just cause panic, embarrassment, anger, confusion, and general mayhem. If you have other reasons to think that he is gay, you may want to try asking him about that if you really want to know, but this just seems like too sensitive of a subject to bring up suddenly.
Calm down and good luck. =)
2007-11-08 12:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you freaked out if you already have a gay friend? Whats another? Ask him, don't go about it wrong though. Tell him you saw a video that looked just like him and see what he says. Go from there! So what if hes gay anyway, whats it got to do with you?
2007-11-08 12:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Boxer Lover 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most gay porn stars are straight males. Sex for money is common and has NOTHING to do with sexuality. You shouldn't do anything - it isn't your business. Leave him alone.
For the record I am a gay male.
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-11-08 12:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He could be bi-sexual. I would tell him you seen the video and its on the internet. Obviously, you can't just blurt it out, but find a time you can sit down and discuss it with him.
2007-11-08 12:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by tmahurin22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋