Will this pain I feel inside ever go away?

Question

I mean I cannot stop thinking about this woman that I want to be with even if I try. *sigh*
I try to go a DAY without thinking about this woman that I want to be with, but just LAST NIGHT I had a dream about her...once again.
I CANNOT help to control on what I dream about, I just dream anything and I am just left waking up and thinking about the dream I just had...honestly this is TORTURE for me. I feel SO helpless : /
I feel that it is unfair that I have been a second chance in everything in my life but it seems that I am not been given a second chance at being happy...oh well...what can I do hu? Perhaps, in the future, I'll find some satisfaction at least
Can any1 relate to this?

And NO I cannot bring this up to the woman I speak of, I must stand this feeling on my own... : /

Answer 1

Unfortunately love hurts especially when our feelings are not returned. I promis you that these feelings will pass. You will fall in love again and life will be so good. This part of your life will seem very distant then. You have to make the choice to move on in your life. This is hard to do, but you must force yourself to do it. That is the only way to get yourself out of the past and back into the future. I still dream about lost loves from years ago. Time passes, the heart remembers, but we move on. Don't think of it as a loss...think of it as having been lucky enough to share time with this person. If you had not met her you would not have grown as a person in the way you will be growing from this point on.

Answer 2

You are obviously obsessed with this woman and are not ready to get her out of your mind.You are hurting yourself emotionally and the longer you dwell on her the harder it gets.For some reason from your answer she is not yours to have and the sooner you realize it, your life will get a little easier.You can try to change to a more positive outlook on life.If you have been given second chances in your life then you will have a second chance of happiness.Give your heart the time to heal and keep yourself busy so you don't have time to think so much.Wish you well !.

Answer 3

Man, happiness comes from within. It is ok to have the feelings that you are having. Simply let them flow through you. Do not hang onto them because doing so is unhealthy. You are not helpless; you must rise above and work on yourself. If you truly want her, you can improve yourself mentally, physically and emotionally. The last thing she wants is a "needy" and unconfident person. Quit putting her on a pedastal; this is all about u

Answer 4

yeah i totally understand that feeling...theres absulutly nothing you can do about it. last summer i was completly in love with this guy but he didnt have feelings for me..and one night when he was drunk he kissed me and after that i feel so hard for him..i dont think ill ever like someone that much. well anyways i had to forget about him but it became odvious to me that i couldnt. he ran through my everyday thoughts and i couldnt stop thinking about him. (or talking about him to my friends) it because soo bad...so i went away for a couple weeks to visit my dad hopeing i would like him less but it didnt work eaither...eventually the feeling kind of faded it just takes time. (a lot of time)

Answer 5

I can relate without going into detail. She is probably your soul-mate.
We all have dark places in our soul we go to when we long for that person we cannot truly be with (in this lifetime). It's ok to visit and acknowledge the pain, but just don't stay there long or it will eat you up alive.

Answer 6

it will never go away believe me.
even scientist have done research an found it stays with them 4 alife time.

Answer 7

yes it sure will