how do you feel...?

Question

let's say that someone in your family is keeping a secret that is very important ans serious from you. They don't tell you, and all of a sudden someone outside your family tells you.
How would you feel? Should I be angry at that person?
I am thinking of not telling anyone, pretend that I didn't know, because it's rumour and I still don't believe that, that person has it yet until i get some proof.
But I don't know what I will do when I hear that it true.

Answer 1

Even it is true you have to find out the truth too.
The real answer can be found from our instinct . Look at that person(if it is a people) behaves.
What is the difference from before . I have this experiences until now . Someone is lying to me from the beginning until now . I found out the truth and proofs waiting for her to confess to me . Still they wont admit . So from what my opinion is that either you say out loud o just keep it to yourself until one day they will tell you . But isnt that is too late ? Because when they tell you it is either they are in big trouble already or you will be the one carrying their burden to ease their pain.

Answer 2

If you want to know just ask, don't play games.