all the friends i have so far are either (seems like) using me cause they have noone else to talk to or are just plain mean. what did i do to deserve this...i try to talk to everyone but it's not working out. i'm a freshman and i'm quiet. but i try hard to talk to ppl. i'm so stressed. and depressed. can anyone pls pls pls help me
2007-11-08 11:37:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Keep right on being yourself and don't try to be someone your not. Let time take it's course and I'll bet you will have lots of friends. Join groups and be sure to talk when you know your right.. It takes longer for a somewhat shy person to gain friends so don't be afraid to speak your mind when necessary and the timing is right. You'll know when. Good luck and relax!!
2007-11-08 11:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by insane one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything to deserve these people, so don't blame yourself. Some people are just miserable and you're best off not keeping them in your life.
If you have interests or hobbies, you could check Craigslist's community section and join a club or check out meetup.com and see if there are any social clubs in your area. It'll be a way of meeting people who share your interests.
2007-11-08 11:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by smoofus70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try joining a after skool club or sport 2 make some new frends who like 2 do the sam stuff u do and mayb u might find ppl who r relly nice
good luck!!
2007-11-08 11:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by :) me :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing to deserve bad friends. Maybe you are making bad choices for people you want to hang out with. If you are trying to be in the 'coo' group, that might not be the right place for you. The 'cool' group is only cool because peple allow them to think that they are. Having friends is very important. If you are kind to people, find people who are kind to you and let them be your friends. Don't pick friendds because of how others might percieve them. Pick them for their kind hearts and kindness. Good luck.
2007-11-08 11:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by DENIECE R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo! don't be depressed! just be kind to everyone--even if nobody is...if it's too stressful...i could be your cyber best friend! hehe ;)
2007-11-08 11:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by ♫мυѕι¢♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋