so my husband
1. makes excuses as to why he doesn't want sex tonite - i'm a passionate woman and have never told him no (we went four months without it recently)
2. tells me to lose 5 more pounds and i'll be perfect (I was 135 - and fit - my doctor told me I was perfect at 136!
3. asks me where i'm going if i roll over in the bed
4. thinks we're doing something together if we're in the same house
5. doesn't work
6. trivializes my needs and thoughts
7. doesn't share my religious views - he has none
8. uses abusive language - b----; c---; stupid; irresponsible
9. I believe is addicted to porn
10. neglected to tell me that he'd entertained an old girlfriend while I was away - he's still not told me I learned from a comment his mother made
and I wonder...why am I still here?!
2007-11-09 15:52:12
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answered by K B 1
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I would totally dump a girl for withholding sex. It would be less about not having sex, and more about the act of withholding it as a means to manipulate me.
2007-11-08 11:32:25
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answered by justin_I 4
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I have left for just not being inlove and knowing it was unfair to him for me to stay; the other time was because my baby wasn't safe with my fiance's abusive 10 year old. I never heard any of these reasons when guys left...probably because I don't fit any of these excuses...the hos just usually found something else, or someone else to do!
2007-11-08 11:29:25
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answered by Anonymous
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I think that's a pretty darn good list. My lady doesn't fit in any of those categories, and that is why I'm happy with her. If she fell into any one of the above categories, it would put a little strain onto our relationship.
2007-11-08 11:26:28
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answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6
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I would agree. It shows passive aggressive behavior and frankly a prelude of what's to come.
2007-11-08 11:24:33
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answered by jay k 6
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i left him because all he wanted was sex. thats not the only thing im for. so i left. dont let anyone take advantage of/or control you. ppl sometimes fail to realize that they deserve better...
2007-11-08 11:28:52
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answered by Susan♥sJohn 3
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I can make a bigger list for leaving
women AND men.
tee hee hee
Tyra rocks my socks!
:)
2007-11-08 11:27:52
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answered by Wicked Aliens 6
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All good reasons no matter if you are male or female.
2007-11-08 11:24:42
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answered by bigDcowgirl 7
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those are all valid reasons for leaving
2007-11-08 11:24:28
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answered by cheri h 7
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its in guy's genes to have sex. its natural. if their women arent giving it. then they'll find another one who will.lol
2007-11-08 11:26:25
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answered by Anonymous
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