Someone please help???? 10 points!!?
Ok So let's say i am married and i love my spouse but i have a best fried whom i have known for years and he loves me, like deeply, now i have feelings for him too, but i would never cheat on my spouse, what do i do about my feelings?
i mean my bf keeps telling me he wishes he married me etc etc but i love my spouse why do i think i love my bf too? is this possible
6 minutes ago
it gets worse because if i married him it would have been perfect i wuold have agreat sisterinlaw and motherinlaw who alredy loves me, instead of the sistreinlaw i have who never talks to me and thinks she's gods gift to teh world and a motherinlaw who is all for her kids? :(
2007-11-08 11:20:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FIRST OF ALL!!! you love your husband very much because u are still faithful, so what is he not giving you that the bf is giving you, that is the question that's why woemn depend on othr men....
2007-11-08 12:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your spouse. That is enough reason to keep distance from your 'so-called' best friend. If he were such a good friend he would be directing you toward your husband and not confusing you with the words he is saying to you. You cannot live your life on 'what-ifs'; we all have those. The point is that you selected your husband as your spouse and not your friend. Try talking to your husband in the way you do this friend and you might be pleasantly surprised.
2007-11-08 13:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is connected to the universe through your senses. If you take a break from divorce-bait (like 3-6 months) then your heart can detach.
It would pierce your husband to hear you talk about your marriage this way. If you want to hurt him in a way so he gets cold and stays mad for a long time, let him know about this question.
2007-11-08 11:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already answered this. If you love your husband, you'll leave the other guy alone. It really IS that simple.
2007-11-08 11:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
BEST ANSWER Get them to become friends, and keep both of them, the benefits are all yours!!!!
2007-11-08 13:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋