why do boys bully girls?

Question

they always seem to bully some girls. like the ones that look weak or lame ir ugly or weird......i used to be bullied in middle school. they used to throw stuff at me like paper balls n always laugh after saying something....it it really hurt. now im in hs so i decided to put on a tougher image, just hoping to not run into some new boys that r going to start the same thing. n im good in hs...no one bullies me but sometimes once ina while someone does, n it pisses me off. what should i do. is it my image. is it someone's lame image that gets biys to bully the weaklings.....is it that fun

Answer 1

I understand that.

mock them. They're going to slip up somehow, with luck, you'll be there to laugh at them. Prove to them that you can be just as mean.

and I hate it when people say "they like you." no, they've just got some parents who did not teach them manners, and have pushed their bad behind kids onto society.

Answer 2

Boys Bullying Girls

Answer 3

Having been bullied by the same at times, but also opposite gender during my time, I would have to say from experience that it solely depends on coincidence. Whenever a guy bullies a girl, they look for a few common, yet distinct factors. One being, the girls' level of social status, their general appearance, and also their personality and daily habits. My first bullying incident happened by a guy in kindergarden, believe it or not. The only difference now is that I understand why he chose me as their principle target. I was a new student in town, and I didn't get the chance to make many friends like the other kids. I wasn't a 'social' baby, which meant I was never around any kids as a toddler, unlike many other parents start doing as soon as their children start to crawl. I had my flaws. My mother dressed me in plain clothing, and I had a pixie haircut. I was too young and naive when it came to knowing how cruel kids at such that of a young age could truly be to each other. It scarred me, and still gets me down to this day. As for girls, also I used to get beat up by them. Not so much because of my looks or clothing, but because of my endless charm and outgoing personality. They used to corner me at recess and push my face into the mud. They kicked me in the knees and told me I wasn't allowed to ever even look at them again. By then I was in second or third grade, and had a few friends. Nothing permanent though. I was different than everyone else. I always was a wise student. Then, as I trekked over to high school with a whole new curriculum, things began to get better. I was wiser, and was too smart to have given into peer pressure. Sure, I still got bullied occassionally, but not nearly as bad as in elementary. My family stood by me, and believe it or not I graduated recently. Needless to say, I'm surprised many of my old enemies from the other school even bothered. I knew who did and didn't like me. No matter what type of bullying a person might have encountered, the important thing is that you always learn from it. To this day I still look back on everything, and think even though I was treated injust, I'm not the one who feels ashamed. Sorry if I rambled, but I must say that bullying is something that can indeed, go both ways. All the best.

Answer 4

Why do ducks waddle and quack? That's what they do.
Bullies are bullies and to be a bully means that they harass, intimidate, menace, and assault ONLY those who are weaker and less able to defend themselves.
Synonyms for bully are coward, punk and scum-bag.
SOLUTION: Stop being a victim and the prey. Stand up for your rights and stop apologizing for living. Start by explaining the situation to school authorities. Make sure that they have a record of your complaints. Maybe ask the school to file assault charges or menacing charges against the bully. NEXT, study your nemesis. Observe who he bullies and who he does not bully. Make friends with a dozen other people who are bullied by the same person. Ask every one of the people he bullies to report their problem to school officials. Ask them to insist that the school do something about the problem. Discuss the issue with the police. If this does not put an end to the bullying you completed the goundwork for two possible courses of action.
Course one: if you are kindly and believe in the rule of law, the victims might join together and contact a lawyer to file a big law suit against the school district asking for a couple of million dollars for each of the plaintiffs for the school board failure to ensure their safety and dignity. DO NOT settle if you are approached by school officials. If they didn't fix the problem when they had a chance, the school board needs to be spanked.
The second course of action might be to form a vigilante negotiation club. Though not recommended, a chance encounter with the bully away from friends might be very effective as only a firm discussion can be.
DO NOT use deadly violence, prison really sucks. Victims who triumph find the experience quite empowering.
Good luck.

Answer 5

The people who say because "they like you" that's RUBBISH! if a boy likes you why would he make your life hell and try to trip you up and throw things at you? boys that have liked me in the past were always sweet to me and tried to impress me and show off in front of their friends, not once did they bully me or hurt me in any way. Boys bully girls because it makes them feel cool and important, they feel putting someone else down makes them feel better about themselves, when in reality they look stupid! I find boys that bully girls pathetic as they wouldn't ever dream of picking on someone who is 6foot and ripped with muscles!

Answer 6

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I haven't known any girls to bully boys much, but I've only ever been bullied by guys.

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why do boys bully girls?
they always seem to bully some girls. like the ones that look weak or lame ir ugly or weird......i used to be bullied in middle school. they used to throw stuff at me like paper balls n always laugh after saying something....it it really hurt. now im in hs so i decided to put on a tougher image,...

Answer 8

I think everyone gets bullied at least once or twice while growing up.

To echo what a few others have said, sometimes young boys DO bully girls their age because they like them. By young, I mean middle school. I guess it's just because they are starting to like girls, but they are used to acting like they don't like them, and being mean to them is the only way that they know how to treat them. I'm not trying to excuse the behavior, but explain it. Another main reason is that some kids are just mean and nasty and like to push around kids who are weaker than they are.

With that having been said, sometimes GIRLS bully BOYS. In sixth grade, I was a little runt and I got bullied by girls. It was mainly just verbal harassment, though. Though one girl did enjoy kicking the back of my chair in music class.

Answer 9

Some guys will tease a girl because they like her, but they never do anything cruel like throw things at her. Guys do not mature as fast as girls do. They eventually catch up, but in middle school and early high school, a guy’s maturity level can be up to two years behind a girl’s. It does also have a lot to do with the environment that the guy lives in. If his parents teach him to be polite and courteous, then he probably won’t be a bully. Guys who are bullies are usually missing something in their lives. They feel the need to put you down, so they can feel better. It doesn’t take much for them to find something to use to bully someone. Anything that makes someone different from the “norm” – glasses, braces, acne, poor, wacky style, smart, learning disability, etc and they have their ammunition.

The key to overcoming them is to confronting them. Ask them if they have nothing better to do with their lives. Tell them if they choose to waste their lives acting like a pack of chimps, to go ahead, you have a valuable life to lead. Smile and walk away. Whistling a carefree song as you walk away works too. Whistle something like “Don't Worry, Be Happy”, “Hanukah Matatta,” “I’ve got no Strings on Me.” It helps if you whistle a well-known song. Look at your shirt. Pretend to brush or pick something off. Act puzzled and say, “hmm, I thought something hit me. I was wrong.” Yawn, as big and loud as you can. Ask them, “Does that make you feel better?” or “Is that supposed to impress someone?” Then add something like, “What a pity...” and “It doesn’t.” respectively. Shake your head and say, “I feel for you. It must be hard to live having to offend others to feel good.”

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Answer 10

the first thing u should do is dont listen to them they might stop now i am not saying they will but if they dont stop u should tell a teacher or something now people may not be beautiful to other people but i beleive that everybody is beautiful in there own way so dont change ur image 4 anybody and no it is not fun at all

Answer 11

I have always heard that boys pick on girls they like, usually well I should say hopefully they outgrow it by elementary school and learn to show their emotion in a more mature way but lets face it most guys don't mature that quickly. Perhaps it wasn't cause you were weak as you say but that they liked you, but your question was why do boys bully girls probably cause they are weak and can't pick on someone their own size but mostly cause I think guys are are not as evolved as ladies when it comes to showing emotion in a civilized way.