my friend had a party and thenmy two best friends waked upstairs. thinking they were "getting away" from the party, i followed cause i was sick of the party too.. so i saw one disapear and i followed, i thought they had seen me and were going to jump out and yell surprise.. WELL SURPRISE.. i came in and they were full on making out like scarily.. "ahem.. im herre" i said. they stopped, blushed, and they explained.. they were just joking..
i dont want to sound creepy.. but i think if i hadnt walked in, they might have gone "all the way"... i know wow..
now, its all awkward. im not sure what to do. i tried confronting them at school AND when they both came over too my house, but they just looked the other way..
i DO NOT want to end the relationship.. but what do i do..
and to add fuel to the fire, i had a crush on, lets call him BOY A. helpp im in a MUDDLE!!
2007-11-08 09:37:57 · 24 answers · asked by Mizz. Chicka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
also. the week before i knew i likes BOY A he said tha he likes me... crazy... btw im 13 no booze..
2007-11-08 10:14:28 · update #1
wow you are in a muddle, you may have to just break the ice some how and discuss it with them and tell them your happy for them and that you'll keep quiet cause obviously they didn't want anyone to know, but you could break the ice by making a joke nothing to offend them of course but tell them you'll get them a tie or something so they can hang it on the doorknob next time hehe. I guess as far as your crush goes, you might have to get a new one. Hopefully they open up to you about it and the awkwardness goes away especially if you are all best friends. Goodluck
2007-11-08 09:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your okay with it, if you are. They feel worse than you could right now and I'm sure they don't want to lose your friendship. You having a crush on Boy A is not really a problem, theres plenty of other guys out there. Just be there for them. More ppl are gay than you would think, it sounds like your pretty young so just try to have an open mind. Good luck!
2007-11-08 09:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Noe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't think you can change them. It must be a quite a shock to find that out about your friends...if you still want to be their friend, you have to accept them for who they are first. If you don't, that's not fair to them..Being gay is not really a big deal, it's like being chinese or american or black. They may not have been that way at first, but now they are. It's part of their personality so if you don't feel comfortable about it, don't be their friend. If you are okay with it, just adapt to the situation as much as you can. Good luck!
2007-11-08 09:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nina is here! :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... if you would have waited 5 more minutes it would have been a full blown sword fight. Lucky your nosey. Bright side is now you have two new people to go shopping with. Bad news is if you keep on liking guy A you're going to have to learn the reach around or the shocker. Go have cosmo's with them and let them know it's not a big deal if it isn't?
2007-11-08 09:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lucky girl you just got the two best friends anyone could want. Support them if you truely are a friend. trust me you will never have to do anything on your own. for now they need the support give freely and defend them it cant be easy still being at school. now you can love them both without regret but dont try to come between them keep your crush to yourself and keep their details to yourself also. may sound wierd now but please trust an older head. be a real friend & you cant go wrong.
2007-11-08 09:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by chickybabe1371 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok a couple of things:
a) ur friends are gay. its kinda obvious no offense
b) the first boy coulve only told you that he liked you because he was trying to hide that he was gay
c)when you walked in, dont interupt just say "hey guys" or nothing at all
they may look away cuz they are embarrassed
2007-11-09 11:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because they might be curious, or what have you. I don't think it's a reason to be concerned. They are still your friends, and you should have no harsh feelings towards their preference. You should continue the friendship regardless of what you have witnessed.
2007-11-08 09:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not in a rude way but i think they either might like eachother...or one needed practice kissing a girl he liked or sumthin..have u asked them??? but before u just ask em if they like eachother tell them ur ok with them being gay or bi cuz they'll always be ur friends:) atleast i hope:S u don't really have to worry bout it i mean if htey're gay theyre gay but if i were u i would want to find out! lol
2007-11-08 09:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by mariam.missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the trouble is they're both guys?
trouble?
I can tell you don`t like Gay stuff
jus move on with your life as long as it don`t affect you physically
they wasn`t joking by the way cos no stright guy would joke like that
Find a guy and make sure he isn`t gay first
2007-11-08 09:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by BestSense 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they said they were just kidding???
what does that mean?
I think that you should sit down with them, apologize for interupting *whatever you wanna call it* and for making them feel uncomfortable in any way. Tell them your feelings, and you guys can still be friends!! Good friends talk over situations.
2007-11-08 09:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by Caylie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋