2007-11-08 08:57:27 · 14 answers · asked by Ly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have lost her trust and hurt her heart. It can be done but it will take a while, years maybe. You have to prove yourself to her and prove that you will never hurt her again. Anybody can say that I won't do it again, you have to prove it. Ask her to go to counseling with you. Start slow and don't push her into anything that she isn't ready for. You have to start the courting process all over again.
2007-11-08 09:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on the circumstances, the reason why she feels that way. The outcome may or may not be what you hoped, however, when you love someone beyond time, when you never forget why you fell in love with that person to begin with, what they did to you, how they made you feel being around them, you will stop at nothing to be honest, genuine, sincere patient and a commited listener to that person. Open up about your feelings, in the ways you would right here. Keep your defenses low, and expect to hear the truth and whatever has enveloped/caused her to feel the way she does. Ask her questions, show interest and make every effort to be inventive, consistant and gentle. People can move mountains! Best wishes!
2007-11-08 09:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Loh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe what she says when a woman is that honest with you you best move on because she means it and there is two possible scenarios why...1 you did sometimes that really hurt her and killed her love for you....2 she's found someone else and gave her heart and body to them.. or all above.. Make the break before things get real ugly maybe you can still be friends..
2007-11-08 09:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she has told you that you have no marriage left to begin with. it wouldn't do for me to be married to her because I would say well if you really feel like that then you need to pack your stuff and leave. I could make a long story over this but I won't, short story,, I don't take any crap off of women, if they don't like it they know where the road is and they can hit it, stand up to her, if she leaves you've lost nothing anyway, find you some one else that will give you their heart, good luck,!!
2007-11-08 09:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Eddie B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what has happen in your marriage to make wife feel this way all your saying is that she said you will never get her heart back you must have hurt this woman for her to say something like that to you. This statement does not tell the whole story.
best of luck
2007-11-08 09:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did you do to her to make her want to take you out of her heart. Personally i dont think you will either. Theres nothing colder than ashes after the fire is gone. You can try and i hope for your sake and the sake of your marriage that your successful. **** luck.
2007-11-08 10:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about some more information; I don't think she woke up one day and said I don't love him anymore; for her to take back the love or lose it something huge had to have happened. How about telling us about that and we may be able to give some intelligent suggestions.
2007-11-08 09:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ly , im in the same boat as your wife but has been 17 years . just ask her how long has she been feeling this and if any way to make it right .. if not really not much you can do im afraid , and i hope for the best for you
2007-11-08 13:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what did you do to lost her heart? If she really mean its then the final stage is already set. Sorry to said, why stay together when one heart is no longer shared?
2007-11-08 09:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did you do to lose it in the first place?
2007-11-08 09:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋