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Had a scan today and have been told my baby is quite possibly dying inside me.

I have already lost a little boy - Matthew when I was 18 weeks pregnant and now I pregnant again and chance I am losing this one too.

Why me and what can I do to save my baby?

Please help I am so distressed.

Lx

2007-11-08 07:16:22 · 18 answers · asked by SunshineApple 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

Baby is very small for what they should be and heart rate is slowing down. They think it won't be long now but can't say for certain. Have another scan in morning but deep down I guess I know I losing this one but I just hope to be proved wrong tomorrow. Saw baby on scan today and it's heart was moving slowly - it killing me.

2007-11-08 07:22:58 · update #1

Baby is very small for what they should be and heart rate is slowing down. They think it won't be long now but can't say for certain. Have another scan in morning but deep down I guess I know I losing this one but I just hope to be proved wrong tomorrow. Saw baby on scan today and it's heart was moving slowly - it killing me.

2007-11-08 07:23:00 · update #2

18 answers

the only person who can give you medical advice on how to 'save' your baby is your doctor. sorry. but good luck.

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2016-10-15 12:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

No one can really give you an answer because we don't know the cause of your baby's illness. I'm sure it must be stressful for you, but the best thing you can do is rest and try to relax. Stress on an already weak baby can be the ultimate. Your doctors I'm sure will do everything they can for you. Sorry you are going through this and good luck ♥

2007-11-08 07:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't know what else to tell you but to say positive and not to stress so much it is bad for the baby. Good luck to you and I hope the two of you pull through this and prove the doctors wrong.

2007-11-08 14:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm so sorry for you, this happened to me too but I really hope that it's not the case for you - sometimes they get things wrong.
If it is dying it's because it's not healthy and there's nothing you can do, sadly it's just not happening this time.
I have my fingers crossed for you and all of us who are hoping for a baby some day soon, it will happen one day some way or another.

2007-11-08 07:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Hunny 3 · 0 0

I am so sorry for your pain, I wish you all the best of luck. Try to stay off of your feet and just take it easy until your doctors give you the final word on what's happening. And although stressful and understandably so, try not to get yourself too worked up because that'll also cause add extra stress on the baby.

2007-11-08 07:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by kskate2jbs 4 · 0 0

i amm soo sorry that you are going through this and no matter what anyone says you cant be trying to relax or not stress because thats normal just trust that God will enable you to keep your child and i will pray fornyou tonight
i hope that in 9 months you will have your desired bundle of joy
good luck
xxxxxxxx

2007-11-08 07:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am so sorry. This is a heartbreaking situation to be in. I really hope you get good news but if it's not good, then my heart goes out to you. I hope you find some way to cope with this apalling tragedy.
xx

2007-11-08 07:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jude 7 · 0 0

just relax and try not to worry too much(easier said than done i know).
The only person or people that can advise you correctly are your medical team,but god bless you and i hope with all my heart everything turns out good for you.
Just hang in there Hun,be brave,and pray your little one will be safe.x

2007-11-08 07:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You poor thing! Why do they think the baby is dying? I would try to relax and stay off your feet and definitely try to get more info about what is going.

God Bless you!

2007-11-08 07:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ginger S 1 · 0 0

I am so sorry, The only people who can help and explain things to you is your doctor. There must be a reason why this is happening so ask them they will help you through it once again i am realllysorryxxx

2007-11-08 07:23:48 · answer #11 · answered by sarah h 4 · 0 0

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