IM 34YRS OLD I WAKE UP WITH AN ERECTION BUT WHEN IT IS TIME TO PERFORM IN BED IT SEEMS LIKE I FOCUSE TO MUCH ON AN ERECTION & IT DOES NOT HAPPEN CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN THE CAUSE IT HAPPENS EVERY TIME
2007-11-08 06:01:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
you are stressing yourslef out whil ein bed...stress will kill your sex drive. you need to be comfortable with your partner. if you are feeling insecure, relay that to your partner, let her try and put you at ease. it is all mental i believe...you may want to see a psychiatrist who can give you an ant-anxiety pill or something or at least talk out your problems. good luck!
2007-11-08 06:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The nocturnal erections are due to the highest testosterone levels in the blood increasing during the night. It's a normal physiological event. The fact your libido is tending to come down at 34 years isn't very normal and you should check your daily testosterone levels by a specific exam.
2007-11-08 14:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's pretty obvious, you are focusing on the wrong thing, stop thinking about your erection and go with the flow intent on giving pleasure to your partner, focus on the pleasure she can give you, and
RELAX.
2007-11-08 14:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cause is your mental state. You need to ask your partner to help you not feel so pressured.
2007-11-08 14:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are trrying to hard to make her happy or you have ten kids.
2007-11-08 14:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by sparkles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋