I think my boyfriend planned this so i won't leave him.He kmows that i am against abortions.After he ejaculated in me he said oops.We always use a condom all of a sudden one day we didnt.He wants me to have it and i want to have it to but how am i suppose to take care of it.I don't know what my mothers going to think.I have no guidance at all.What am i suppose to do.Do you have any adivce?
2007-11-08 03:34:59 · 19 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
♥ Wow.. your in a really tough situation. Being 15 and pregnant is hard! I've known many 14-16 year olds that have gotten pregnant and have had beautiful children. My cousin whom is [[freshly]] 16 is 17 weeks pregnant. I cried so hard when she told me.... my little girl was growing up but I was very supportive of her! What you need to do is talk to someone whom you trust. It can be a teacher, a counseler, a family member, or a Planned Parenthood Counseler. You need to begin getting prenatel care, which is especially important since you are so young! You can get some over the counter prenatel vitamins at pretty much any pharmacy until you get a chance to get to the doctor. Talk to your mom... I'm sure she will be hurt at first and you can bank on her crying but hopefully she will support you. If you need to talk you are welcome to email me.
Good Luck!
2007-11-08 04:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, stop blaming your boyfriend for the pregnancy -- you were just as much at fault for allowing intercourse without a condom, or without having a back-up form of contraceptive. So you need take your share of the responsibility for this. (BTW, using a baby to trap someone -- boy or girl -- is despicable.)
Call or go by Planned Parenthood and discuss your options with a counselor, first. It's not always about abortion and birth control -- they can give you good informaton on how to put a baby up for adoption, too. Then, with that information under your belt, you're going to have to tell your mom. She is going to be very upset and disappointed, and also worried about you, but she'll get over it. Discuss with your mom what your options are.
((((Hugs)))) and good luck.
2007-11-08 13:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't put this all on your boyfriend. YOU chose to have sex, therefore YOU are now dealing with the consequences of your actions.
There is no getting around this. The only way is to tell your parents right away what you have done.
Remember, kids, sex = babies. Don't want a baby? THEN DONT HAVE SEX. Easy as that.
2007-11-08 11:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your boyfriend first and tell him he has to be there when you tell your parents since he wants the baby, too.
Then, ask him to come over or stop by at the agreed upon time and day and sit your parents down and tell them. You don't have to give them all the details, just tell them you are pregnant.
2007-11-08 11:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Loves the Ponies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're going to find out anyway. Just you and your boyfriend should tell your parents everything. Tell them what you plan on doing to make the situation better
2007-11-08 19:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kanesha J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even though you think your boyfriend planned it, it is your fault too.
You need to tell your mom as soon as possible so you can get into the doctor now. Next, just take things as they come. your mom will have guidence for you.
2007-11-08 12:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your bf should tell both of your parents, say sorry and be as honest as possible. moreso, you should be more responsible now because you will be a mother soon. besides, your parents, especially your mom, will always be there for you no matter what. of course, they will get mad at first, but eventually, that will be gone, especially when they see your baby be born. just have faith and always pray.
2007-11-08 14:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by kilashandra28 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You noted that you have o guidance at all, this is even one more reason why you should tell your parents. They may be upset but will eventuall deal with the situation.
All the best.
2007-11-08 11:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents an his,have a neighbor all 3 of his girls got pregnant an he made the girls tell him who an he made those kids take care of those babys mom watched the kids while the girls where in schol after school was over then the girls an boy friends took over ,
2007-11-08 15:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See u did a very big mistake.Try to correct it.First thing u should tell to ur parents.It is better u should tell them first before they know about the matter.Then u can think about it.
2007-11-08 11:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by bharath 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋