2007-11-08 03:27:29 · 11 answers · asked by ericachristyne 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
You, your doctor and your husband are really the only ones who can answer that.
I would give yourself at least 9 months to a year to grieve so that you can fully enjoy the next pregnancy.
So sorry for your loss.
2007-11-08 03:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Level Headed, I hope 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I am very sorry for your loss. I have also experienced the loss of a child, at 30 weeks through twin to twin transfusion syndrome.
The doctors told me that I should wait at least a year before trying to get pregnant again, but they said it really is more of a precaution for the body, not me mentally, that should happen whenever I feel ready for another child. If you gave birth by C-section, at the very least wait 6 months. I gave birth in August and I will be trying next May or June which is obviously less than a year. The precaution as I said is for your body, but only you can know when you are mentally ready to start trying again. Good luck
2007-11-08 13:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Cblack02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would like to tell you that my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Only you and your husband can decide when the right time is. Myself or anyone else on here can't tell you when you are ready, that is a very personal decision. If you ever need to talk to someone you can always email me, I might not have answers but I will be here to listen. Again so sorry for your loss.
2007-11-08 12:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Amber B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you feel like waiting. But do give yourself some time, not only for your health, but for your broken heart as well.
You are very strong, much stronger than I am. I do wish you the best of luck in the future. Nothing could be worse than loosing a child, I am so very sorry that happened.
God Bless,
Randi
2007-11-08 11:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Joyous Mommy ♥'s her ßoys 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I am currently 33 weeks and reading this just made me cry.
Only you can decide how long to wait, but make sure you allow yourself and your husband time to grieve.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
You'll be in my prayers.
2007-11-08 11:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kyler's Mom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I,m SO sorry , what a terrible thing to happen. If it was a vaginal birth then in about 6 months your body would have recovered,if it was a c-sec. then longer. But i think it would take at least a year to recover psychologically at least ,only you can answer that part. Good luck in the future.
2007-11-08 11:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bonnie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss
I waited a year
there was a lot of grieving and I wanted to not replace Jamie
and until I was better
give yourself time
2007-11-08 11:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by caretaker 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
so sorry for your loss! but its up to you to decide whether your ready to deal with becoming pregnant again! I wish you the best and i wish you Great Health....God bless you in your choices
2007-11-08 12:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Nika Dueces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant have sex for 6 weeks and u should give ur self at least a year to greive
2007-11-08 15:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by sammi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice. No one can set a time frame for you.
xo
2007-11-08 11:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋