Assuming the father is your spouse/boyfriend and you didn't cheat. Men: How would you feel if you found out about it years down the road?
2007-11-08 02:39:54 · 15 answers · asked by Tristan Robert Due March 20 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now where in my squestion did I state that I had done such a thing? Assuming are we? I was asking because a girl I work with was not planning on telling he husband. She does not want kids...ever.
2007-11-08 14:44:58 · update #1
As a guy spouse, you better NEVER tell me. I mean, not a hint, no receipts, no doctors letters, no weird phone calls from girlfriends. Keep it between you and your doctor. Resist the urge to tell your entire support group or friends and family.
Take this secret to your grave.
2007-11-08 02:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't and I wouldn't.
On the flip side...I had thought about not telling him I was PG...we were just "friends" ahem....he said that he DID NOT want children. After 14 years of trying to get pg only to be told that I would never, I wasn't about to give up my miracle simply because he didn't want children. My mother talked me out of not telling him...she said regardless of his decision he deserves to know about it, and he can make his choice to be a father or not. He stood by me, we're still friends who have a child together. I do all the daily raising of the child and he comes by to see her about once a week. I'd like more for her, but its all he can give right now...so be it. So long as she knows both of her parents love her more than anything in the world.
2007-11-08 03:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would never do that. That's cruel!
In addition, if your spouse was the father of the child, why wouldn't you tell him? And if it was your boyfriend, then shouldn't he at least has the right to find out? I just think it's an awful thing to do to someone.
2007-11-08 02:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Adn's Mommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How cold and heartless of you to be more interested in how your boyfriend feels rather than the fact that you ended the life of a living human being. Your "termination" as you put it was a well thought out and orchestrated event to eliminate another person's life. Now you are gloating over it and seeking input from other women. You mean, cruel, evil person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-08 06:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, although I believe its a woman's choice. When you are married, or in a relationship, the decision should not be one sided. He needs to know, what if he wants this baby? Even if he doesnt, He deserves the truth.
2007-11-08 02:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bella Lina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have not but i know women that have. you need to decide is you will be able to deal with keeping that from your significant other and make your decision from there. also it could affect you later down the road and cause you to act differently toward your other half.
2007-11-08 03:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by always thinkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have..... and you as a woman, as a mother knows what's best for you and your unborn child. The only person you need to answer to is God. Yes abortion is wrong, but giving birth and raising a child that you don't want is worse. You have to do what's best for you, and your man in due time will understand!!
2007-11-08 02:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is not only a sin its murder no matter what
A father has the right to know and if he says get abortion hes wrong if he says he will take care of the baby step up plate then its fine
There in no way in the world if i ever got pregnant i would hide it from my partner father of the baby its just inhuman to do it
2007-11-08 02:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by aguardianangel 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No, I would never do something like that. My brother's ex girlfriend did that to him though, and he about had a nervous breakdown. He left her, he just couldn't forgive her for doing that. Thats a pretty serious thing to do in my opinion.
2007-11-08 02:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Brittney 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you should always tell the father after all he helped you make this baby why shouldnt he help decide what to do about it.
2007-11-08 02:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋