I lived with my husband parents for five years. We got married in 2001. I moved in with his parents in October 1999. Is this too long. I think it is.What about you?
2007-11-08 02:36:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as you are happy living there, and they are happy with you being there, stay as long as you like. If you aren't happy, you need to start encouraging husband to find the two of you a place to live. If he doesn't want to do that, perhaps you should find yourself a place. That should get his attention.
2007-11-08 02:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, yes, how have you been able to be a wife with the mommy still around. i think that all couples need room to be mad, angry, in love, love or just vent. if your situation has been like this for so many years, chances are that you guys haven't gotten to know each other as a couple. this may cause problems that you didn't even know that you had when you move out. i suggest you find a place to live immediately and be on your own like ever other couple. it shouldn't be a money issue. if you as a couple decided to get married you already knew what the struggles you were to encounter, so suck it up and move out, now. sorry but that is my opinion.
2007-11-08 02:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by 1monkey2butterflies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long for whom? You? Your husband? His parents?
Sounds like everyone is happy with the arrangement. But if you want a place of your own and can afford it, bring it up during dinner tonight.
2007-11-08 02:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for him to be a man and move out on his own. According to the bible, a man leaves his house and becomes "one flesh with his wife". If there is a reason why this hasn't happened wet, be cool, it will happen soon enough. If there isn't a reason, it's time to set a fire under him to get him moving.
Feel me?
2007-11-08 02:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is not the measurement to lived in with In Law. There always the pair of Good & Bad.And depend on you & your spouse reasons.
If no matters to consent why bother to move
2007-11-08 03:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's too long. And, in my personal opinion, it's 5 years too long. But you're not living with them now, right? So why are you wondering about it at this point?
2007-11-08 02:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be climbing the walls and trying to create escape plans. There is no reason to be living with them for so long! Unless you like not having your privacy. Get out!!!
2007-11-08 02:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks it's too long but do you love him enough to tell him it's too long. If you can't let him know that you will leave him and he believes you will leave him, then you don't love him and you will alway accept living with his parents.
2007-11-08 02:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Dopemane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was your mother-in-law I would say YES!!! You have been there way to long.
She deserves a lot of credit for putting up with you. Especially based on your previous posts!
2007-11-11 09:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by proud grandma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived with my ex-inlaws for over a year and it drove me crazy, eventually I insisted we move out, even a few weeks would be too long for me.
2007-11-08 02:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋