I start a new job tomorrow and I'm feeling so nervous....?

Question

In a way I'm dreading it, and yet I should be feeling happy for myself that I got a job, and looking forward to it. Any advice?

Answer 1

people will expect you to be nervous on your first day, so it's ok.
Show interest and a willingness to learn, and don't jump into ready made cliques.
Be confident in yourself, you would not have gotten the job otherwise.

Answer 2

Good Luck!! I'm sure all will go well, relax today, pamper yourself,.... after you decide what to wear, lay out your entire outfit, shoes and all so you are prepared. Make sure your "first day attire and appearance", is the true you, and the you they see every day. If you got the job, you've already impressed them, and are no doubt qualified, so relax!

The people at yor new job will be like a second family, just treat them how you expect to be treated, and put up with those certain people who are not immediately receptive, or lack patience with you while you are being trained. EVERYONE has a "FIRST DAY"..... how easily they tend to forget that, and their first couple of weeks.......expect it during the transition and you'll be fine.
Every job I've ever had, there was always one particular day ,I'd had had enough, and would give my 2 weeks at the end of the day............each and every time, as that particular day went on , I realized I finally knew what I was trained to do, who I could trust and count on, and I really did like this job!!!!(and why was I so nervous the first day?!)
p.s.....with the exception of McDonalds as a teen.....

Answer 3

CONGRATS on the NEW JOB!!!
They picked you for a reason just relax...
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Almost everyone has nervous jitters at sometime during their life. There are many ways to calm your nerves and relieve stress in your life.
---A warm bath is helpful. Be sure the water is not too hot as hot water tends to stimulate.
---A warm cup of tea works wonders. There are many varieties of flavored tea on the market today. Try to choose one that is decaffeinated. For instance, Chamomile tea has no caffeine and it has a relaxing effect.
---Visualization is used a lot to calm nerves. Sit back in a comfortable chair. Clothing must not be tight. Try to relax your body. At first, you'll find it difficult to clear your mind but keep trying . Soon you will start to relax. Visualize a peaceful setting. Such as laying on the warm sand of a beach. Listen to the waves as they pound upon the beach and smell the salty sea breeze. Feel the warm sun touching your skin.
---Try to imagine that you're in a big clear bubble floating above a emerald green valley. Visualize anything that makes you feel relaxed.
---Breathing exercises are great for relieving stress. Breath in a deep breath. Hold it and count to ten. Let out the air and as you do visualize the air as being all the pent up stress.
---It is very important that one has something useful to do during the day and to stay occupied.
---An hour to a nervous person seems like forever. It is essential that a nervous person has outside interest so that time passes quickly.
---Breathing into a paper bag and then rebreathing the air in the bag can be relaxing.
---Meditation is another helpful tool. Find a comfortable place to sit. And be as quite as possible and there should be no distractions. Clear your mind. While you're meditating its nice to listen to some relaxing music such as Classical or New Age. Try to do this for at least fifteen minutes a day.
---Try to exercise when you're feeling nervous and stressed out. Taking a walk is wonderful for stress. The fresh air and open spaces gives you a better mood and makes everything look so much better.

Answer 4

Of course you are feeling nervous! The majority of our waking hours are spent "at work". But look at it as a chance for change. You haven't worked with these people before, so their expectations are that you will be able to fulfill the position. You know you can do that, or you wouldn't have applied. You know you will get an orientation period, to teach you anything job specific, so that isn;t the cause of your anxiety either. Youre worried about the social aspect of it. And rightly so. Most people don't quit or get fired from a job because they can't do it, it happens because of the relationships with other employees. So look at this time as the opportunity to better your personality. Listen twice as much as you talk. A good listener is an asset. Think about what you are going to say, and ask yourself why are you going to say it, and does it need to be said. Most people who work together are not friends, they are co-workers. They don't really need to know anything about your personal life. And stay completely away from anything you wouldn't want on the front page of the paper, because it could end up there. Concentrate of being a good employee. On fulfilling the job requirements. Be on time! Be courteous and polite, Dress professionally, and save your personal clothes for your personal time. Everyone creates a personna where they work. Decide tonite, who are you going to be 6 months from now. Are you going to be a "true asset", "the nicest person", "the hardest worker", "the most dependable... And work every moment of everyday on becoming that person. It will keep your mind occupied and help you control your mouth. Don't get caught up in gossip, it can become your ruination. Just decide up front, they are going to be so happy they hired me! And make it come true.

Answer 5

I hate starting new jobs. Gratz on yours, btw!

My best advice is don't worry about knocking their socks off today. Do your best, but don't stress yourself out. You're new, and you aren't familiar with how things are done. If you mess something up, don't worry about it. You're NEW! lol

Also, bring your lunch and maybe a book to keep yourself busy at break times, but be prepared to put them down if people want to chat with you. Break time means everyone does their own thing, some might want to be left alone, others might want to chat all break. Socialize with people and get to know them. That'll most likely make your day go by faster, and you'll probably get to hear about the atmosphere at work.

My final piece of advice is, it's only a day. The second day of work is always easier. Good luck!!

Answer 6

First, Congratulations! It's natural to be nervous. I just started a new job and I made sure to get to the office building early so I can be relaxed and ready for when I needed to report to work.

You should be proud of yourself, getting a job is quite the achievement. Look back at your interview process and remember that you were chosen among other applicants. They obviously see potential in you, and they will give you time to prove yourself. No need to be nervous, you can do it!

Answer 7

Congrats on the new job!
Wear an outfit that you feel confident in as feeling good about your outward appearance is half the battle. The rest is just reminding yourself that you got the job because you were the one they wanted.
No one is perfect and if you are worried about making a mistake, don't. Everyone does on the first day of a new job and it's expected until you adjust.
Do your best and be proud of yourself for getting the job in the first place.

Answer 8

Nervous About New Job

Answer 9

It's normal to be nervous, but you must be confident in your abilities. You should be happy but you should not worry too much or else you will mess up on your first day of work(you don't want that now, do you?). Just go with the flow. Don't worry, be HAPPY!!!

Friggin' Hell, I'm starting to sound like a friggin' counsellor!!!

P.S. I hope you do well on your first day, Good Luck!

Answer 10

I am currently training 3 new employee's where I work, and they all walked in with the same petrified look on their faces on the first day. Trust me it is very common to have new job jitters. Just try to get a good nights sleep and walk in with a smile on your face. Make sure that you listen and take notes if needed. Nobody is going to expect you too learn a job on the first day. The 3 that I am training will not be *on there own* for 3 months! Remember, every single person that you are working for had the same first day fears, its very natural to feel the way you do. Best of luck!