my wife is great and amazing and loving, she helps out around the house and so forth, she doesnt work but i do and we get by just fine. she is of course secretive about her friends she just says she is going to hang out with them but i always see her walking extra distance to where they are waiting her so i dont see them she wont even say if they are guys or girls. but no big deal. the problem is that she never wants sex, i can get by just fine cause i am still a virgin (we didnt have sex on the honeymoon either) but she isn't so im wondering how can she hold out? is there a reason as to why she is doing this?
i tried talking to her and asked her about counseling but she gets angry at me everytime i bring it up and refuses to talk about sex. she wasnt sexually abused or anything or raped i just dont understand.
2007-11-08 01:44:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would wonder who she is walking to see!!
2007-11-08 01:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by KyLoveChick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a woman shuts down sexually, it's because she is hurt by something her spouse has done. Have you oogled too many women? Made comments about your son's girlfriends? Have you in ANY way made her feel like she isn't good enough? That will shut a woman down and it's up to you to bring her back and love her again. Most women love intimacy as much or more than a man, and when they stop, it's a sign that they've been hurt. Fix it.
2016-04-03 01:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Either this woman is a lesbian, or she's a man. Have you ever even seen what's under her dress? If she's neither of the above, she's sleeping with another man! In either case, you need to stop letting her play this game with you. Tell her point blank that she can either have sex with you, or leave!
No man in his right mind would put up with this crap. You're supporting this woman and she can't accommodate you in bed--ever? You don't even know who her friends are, or where she goes, yet you call her great because she helps you spend your money? Bull$hit! If you continue to allow this kind of behavior, you're a fool and you deserve every bit of her disrespect!
2007-11-08 02:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Get him to help out more?
my husband and i dont have any kids but there is a lot of housework that never gets done and i really need his help. i stay at home (usually im out with friends) he leaves at about 6 am in the morning for work and comes back at 8 then he sleeps for two hours and go goes out for another job as security. i been trying to get him to help out around the house when he is here for the two hours and on the weekends he just sleeps usually how can i get him to help out more?
tried leaving the house and leaving all the housework for him but he just gets angry i even left for weeks but it hasnt changed anything.
2007-11-08 01:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
No offence to you, but it sopunds like maybe she just married you for your money. She probably has guys on the side. I'm sorry thats harsh. But you seem like one of the good guys. You don't need a nasty girl. You need a good girl that respects you, and loves you emotionly and physically. From experience, if they don't want help, they will never change.
2007-11-08 01:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its a real problem that you guys didnt have sex on your honey moon and your still a virgin and are married. Something is going on. Sounds like she might be cheating on you.
2007-11-08 02:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Laura Duck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes a transexual and she doesnt want you to find out...Shes gotta be keeping something from you...follow her when she meets with her friends, see what kind of friends she has, maybe they are same as her. OR she probably is a lesbian. But more than likely think about her maybe being a transexual...hey u never know....
2007-11-08 01:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by txladybug_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude that sucks. I would have a serious conversation with her and find out what is the deal. I would approach it in a non-threatening way but it needs to be resolved post-haste.
2007-11-08 01:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this could be a chemical thing. I have done a little searching online about it. But then she could be cheating, need real proof for that one. I would suggest that there is need of a or something else will have to be done.
2007-11-08 01:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by ldygdva757 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same story but it was my ex husband that did not want to have sex and or go to counseling.
Guess what? He was seeing someone else.
Move on.
2007-11-08 01:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she is a total woman? Maybe she is gay... You have to have a talk.. Have you ever seen her naked or touched her there? Geeeeeeeeeez I wish you love and luck..... Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-11-08 01:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋