and last night talking to my oldest daughter she had thought that for a long time, he is 22 years old, now wtf do i do,,tested????i think so,,,this sucks,,,i need some opinions
2007-11-08 01:28:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my ex wife and i have been divorced for many years and i was paying child support for many years for a child that doesnt even talk to me
2007-11-08 01:41:38 · update #1
Go to Maury, you can even get a vacation in the mean time.
2007-11-08 04:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just do the test it will take around two weeks or more its depend on the laboratory
so the test will show you if hes your son or not
but in my opinion you should feel if hes really your son or not just please no need to tell him because its long time and he get use that you are his father so it will be so difficult for him and for you also do the test but if its become not your son don't change any thing just keep it hard for both of you think before you do any thing
2007-11-08 16:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Malos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you start acting on a hunch do your home work this is a big thing what your are suggesting is that 1 your other half has been keeping some thing from you.2 she has been unfaithful. think long and hard before you act do your home work by all accounts but be wise hope this helps and i hope everything works out the way you want it too
2007-11-08 09:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by smiler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know for sure then get a paternity test but talk to your son first and decide what's best for the both of you.
2007-11-08 09:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends are you still with the women who had him? If so get the test and leave her triflin ***..If not who cares hes been your son this long leave things be if you just have to know maybe find away to find out with out letting your son know and just leave things the same
2007-11-08 09:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Cerenity 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Will it serve any purpose to do anything now? Have you loved him all these years? If so, can you stop loving him because of a piece of paper?
If this changes nothing to prove you are or aren't the father, then save yourself and your children the hurt it will cause and don't do anything.
2007-11-08 12:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Alright 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it really matters. If you love him, then he is your son. If you are concerned that your wife is cheating on you, then talk to her about it, but it may just get you a big slap on the face!
2007-11-08 09:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you love your son, he is yours regardless of what the test says. Why waste your time getting it? Its just going to hurt a bunch of people.
2007-11-08 09:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by MJMGrand 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Even if you did the test it won't change the fact that he is still your son and it can make it worse on him..
2007-11-08 10:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Karebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think about this long and hard before doing anything. my first thought is to let it go....despite the fact he doesn't speak to you, do you want to lay that on him? it seems like since it has been so long it would cause needless hurt. hmmmm. just be thankful you got divorced!
2007-11-08 09:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋