im 34 weeks pregnant tomorrow and for the past few weeks everytime i have sex im left with a really bad pain in my vagina back and bottom of my stomach, its fine having sex but afterwards once ive been to the toilet my back aches and really hurts my stomach gets pains in and it feels like someting is pressing down like i need to push like i need the toilet but when i go to the toilet nothing happens , im also restless and drinking and lying down does not help ?
Any ideas?
2007-11-08 01:02:29 · 23 answers · asked by Amy4eva 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would stop having sex just now and consult your Doctor. After sex it is quite normal to have mild cramps, but it should not be painfull.
It would be safer to ask your doctor for advice before continuing.
2007-11-08 01:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by not2posh 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex during pregnancy does cause contraction of the uterus - the same pulsing you feel in your vagina when you orgasm. Typically it is mild and actually beneficial for the baby but in some cases it can cause pre-term labor. The pain in your back and abdomen sounds like strong contractions - which can push the baby down and put pressure on your pelvis - that could be causing the pain in your vagina and pressure you feel. Definitely call your OB and talking with him/her about this. Don't wait until your next visit. And I would advise to discontinue sex and any orgasmic activity until you get the ok from your doctor. There are many other ways to enjoy your partner and show love and affection - be creative. Best wishes to you!
2007-11-08 01:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by swtgaangel99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 34 weeks and have this problem try the spoons posistion or lying on your side with him kneeling etc u hve 2 find a comfy position and you find the pain eases the baby sounds like its head down putting pressure on your pelvis so thats why you think u need to push when actually you dont so i hope i help x
2007-11-08 01:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, well i also go like that aswell for the past couple months i'd say im 39weeks pregnant! n im sore as hell feels like contractions but i think that yer cervix and the baby are trying to get into position and yer cervix is getting ready, they all say that sex is alrite through pregnancy even to induce, i suggust looking more on the internet cause not everyone knows the answer to everything!
2007-11-08 10:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get contractions after sex, thats what you're feeling are contractions. The contraction can make you feel like you need to poop, and the irritation of it all can make you feel like you need to pee- especially during sex.
The pain in your vagina is also normal, you have increased blood flow to that area and your skin is super sensitive.
If youre really hurt by it, dont have sex, or take it more carefully.
2007-11-08 01:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The baby is probably putting downward pressure on your vagina leaving less room for other things. If it hurts that much you should probably slow down with it.
2007-11-08 01:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by webjen26 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
limit the sex
too much things going on the you
plz visit the doc
2007-11-08 01:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by morning star 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would def. call your doc and see what they think. Make sure you aren't lying on your back for very long, if at all.
2007-11-08 01:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by ame dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to go and see your GP or midwife to get checked out and make your there are no problems best wishes
2007-11-08 01:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by shaza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Best to put it off until you talk to your dr. Its uncomfortable to talk about but best too!!
Good luck and take care!!!
2007-11-08 01:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by *just me and my babies* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋