2007-11-07 22:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think you should take your time but letting yourself fall in love is always a mistake on some level. You sacrifice a little independence, individuality, self-loyalty, and just a bit of yourself every time you fall in love. As for sex, as a guy, I say dart right in. Women are disadvantaged because women are more affected by oxytocin, a hormone released during sexual stimulation, that makes people fall in love and become attached. As for men, we could have sex ten times with the same girl and still have no feelings for her. It's around twenty that we start to feel some attachment. As for one, even after the first time it can be enough to make women fall in love. After repeated times, the mere sight of the man can make the woman emit the oxytocin, making her even more attached.
2007-11-07 22:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can dart into sex but you can't dart into love. You can't just think 'yeah okay I'm going to rush into this and love him now instead of later'...it doesn't work like that. I don't think you can really "dart" into the emotional aspect.
As for the physical aspect...well yes people tend to "dart" into sex and what-not. For women [most of the time] it seems like a sure-fire way into a man's heart, but for men [unfortunately a lot of the time] it's just another way to get a night's fun.
That's why so many people end relationships so quickly these days.
This is what I've observed anyway.
2007-11-07 22:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Squidgie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on the people... I don't think you can dart into love... it takes time to fall in love with someone, it doesn't just happen usually. You need to build up the relationship. I think both things come together. Also, its the persons choice whether to have sex or not... personally I think it should be kept until the right moment, when both people feel its right.
2007-11-07 22:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an interesting question. You used the word " dart" into sex and love. They are as different as " apples and oranges".
2007-11-07 22:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darting into sex is fine if you feel safe and you use protection. But love, well there's no protection for that and there's no such thing as a good breakup. **** love!!
2007-11-07 22:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that becoming friends first is the best thing. Diving into a sexual relationship without knowing someone is not a good idea. The emotions of that type of relationship would get in the way of really getting to know that person.
Friends first until you get to know them, then down the road, possible dating and still wait for the physical part.
2007-11-07 22:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not an entirely bad idea. Just don't be co-signing on auto loans and crap like I did. Now I am single and owe $8,000 on a repossessed vehicle.
2007-11-07 22:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dart into sex... sure. dart into love? nah. sex comes first, then love, than marraige, then baby in carraige- or something like that right?
2007-11-07 22:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by studio 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
idea is go for it if thats what you want
prefer romance and love myself
2007-11-07 22:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by bilbobagsend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋