my x-bf lied and gave away my cat to an animal shelter, now I wont ever get to see her again, I wonder if she got a good home, as good as i treated her, i cry about it all the time should i just get over it.
2007-11-07 17:08:34 · 14 answers · asked by Whole 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i did everything i could to get her back, they couldnt tell me where they gave her because of confidentiality reasons
2007-11-07 17:19:59 · update #1
thats terrible! did you check with the shelter to see what happened to her? the poor thing, a hex on your dirt bag of an ex boyfriend. what an a hole he is. i don't blame you in the least for being upset, i don't think i could ever get over that myself. i'd like to hunt down that guy and give him the what for right where it counts. try to think of her in a loving home, thats about all you can do unless you can somehow track her down. the shelter should have records...i feel so sorry for you...
2007-11-07 17:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a horrible thing for him to do! have you tried to go to the animal shelter to see if maybe your cat hasnt been adopted yet and you could get her back?
your not a baby at all...i can understand how hard this must be for you. My cat died a year ago in Sept. and I still miss her a great deal, and think about her a lot..I obsess over what I could have done to keep her from dying, even though I know it wasnt my fault. When you are really close to a pet, its like losing a friend or part of your family, and its not easy to get over it. Its completely normal to feel how you do..even though some people will probably say "get over it..its just a cat.."..they dont have a CLUE what its like.
I wish I could say or do something to help..but I know its not that easy...But please dont be hard on yourself thinking your being a baby about the whole thing, because you arent.
2007-11-08 01:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by bleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - you are not a big ole' baby. I have two cats and if anyone took either of them to the animal shelter - I would be very upset and cry too.
Can the animal shelter tell you what home she went to and may be you can get her back.
As for the ex bf - kick him in b_lls - hard! Maybe he should be sent to a shelter and not adopted out.
Sorry for your loss
2007-11-08 01:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would have contacted the animal shelter to see if I could get info. I would have been upset too.
2007-11-08 01:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Unaware 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell No ! I'd have went to the Shelter and Got Her Back.
I LOVE My Cats
2007-11-08 01:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Always Curious 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Things like this takes time, it may only be a pet but pets make the bestests friends, if one on my pets went i would be crying for a very long time
2007-11-08 01:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My dog died in June, and I am so upset still, so know you have to grieve. I hope she got a great home! BTW I would HATE taht guy for doing that to you!
2007-11-08 01:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by kaytee3212 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I think you'll be alright, it's okay to cry and weep about the past and all but you gotta move on no matter quite sad it might be, just trust that she has a good place to live and life, she may be gone from You but she is forever in your Heart.
2007-11-08 01:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mimí..ツ 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No you are not a big baby.
Your ex-boyfriend is a total ***.
I am so sorry about your cat. I am sure she got a great home.
2007-11-08 01:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No! That's so sad and mean, why would he do that?!? You might even be able to take him to court over that if he had no ownership over her and you had no idea what was happening.
2007-11-08 01:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kat* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋