there's a girl who's one of my best friends. Two nights ago, she told me she wanted to kiss me, so I kissed her. After the kiss, we looked at eachother, and she kissed me again only this time we started making out. Before I knew it, she was going down on me. Yesterday, she called me wanting to meet up for dinner. When she saw me, she kissed me again, very sweetly on the lips. After dinner, she invited me back to her place, and we had sex again.
I'm bi, and am very much out of the closet, but she isn't. She has always made remarks, telling me how pretty I look and things like that, but I never thought she was acually bi.
So are we dating now or what? I'm confused.
2007-11-07 16:59:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I guess you are dating and it sounds obvious from what you say that she likes you and wants the new intimacy to continue.
If you have a problem with this you will have to find a way to tell her, otherwise enjoy your friendship. Being in our out of the closet is irrelevant, after all no-one needs to advertise what their sexual orientation is or might be.
2007-11-07 17:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by janniel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with being same sex; a boy/girl couple in the early stages is frequently confused and/or insecure.
Terms don't matter. You don't have to call what you are doing by any name. You are getting to know each other and having fun. Don't make an issue of it. If it's important tell her you are wondering, or not. It doesn't matter.
If you want to spend time with each other, do it, and see what happens. Maybe you'll enter a relationship, or maybe not. Being friends and making the other feel good about herself is what is important.
2007-11-07 17:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by LodiTX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(wow, i didnt know that was actually possible, i tough that only happened in porno movies)
nevermind that, i think you should, wait till she calls you again, if she wants to go out with you, it means she has finally discovered she's bi, maybe even gay, but if she starts to avoid the subject, well it means that she was just experimenting or trying new things (but it seems like she likes it, since its happened twice, and i mean, she even invited you to dinner, isnt that romantic? gosh, i wish some girl invited me to dinner sometime)
2007-11-07 17:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Alex C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can have sex with this girl you can have an open conversation. Ask her where she is going with this or just tell her that you never knew that she was bi and see where to conversation goes.
2007-11-07 17:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a letter in the reader's mail section of playboy magazine.
Just ask her if you're confused, that's the only way you'll know for sure.
2007-11-07 17:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi. have a nice day, actually can u find yoUrself on what u was standing above? the answer is clear inside u. take a long breathe and ask Ur self is it a correct path to enjoy life n having sexual the gift of god? u can notified ur self Wat is going on this era. respect Ur soul there is a great ans. u r the great dictionary for Ur soul, take care of Ur heart.
2007-11-07 17:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by mr DKA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless one of you specifically states to the other that you're both in a relationship of some kind, then technically you're both still single. But this also started very recently. Give it a few days.
2007-11-07 17:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Roswell 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you need to talk to her about this because dating is a bit different form a sexual experimentation stage she may be going through.
2007-11-07 17:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to find that out is to just go and ask her to find out how she feels.
2007-11-07 17:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by puffyamiyumi14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a possiblilty why not ask her how she feels? Just a suggestion
2007-11-07 17:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋