I have this friend (girl) that i find her personality super attractive. I know that i don't like her like "like like" her, but i miss her and i always think about her. I try to cut off the relationship between me and her by not having any contact with her. So i have not talk to her in the last three days, which seems like forever to me. I do not mind she has a BF that she seriously "like"; i don't like her that way, aleast i do not think so. however, i would feel super joyful if she can show me some affections, any affection can make me smile. I feel like when she is not in my life i would return back to my old self, which is someone that i don want to be. I know she likes me as a friend, I do not mind. that but, do i like her like a friend too? or something? If so, what it is? Please help me.
2007-11-07 16:50:02 · 4 answers · asked by rainingurl 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you need to not cut yourself off from this girl, if you like her as a friend and she likes you as a friend then just be friends. if something sexual devlops then re evaluate and decied if thats what you are really feeling and if you want to be with her in a sexual way. your ok either way if you are attracted to her physically or if your not and you just want to be her good friend.
2007-11-07 16:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Emon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your just feeling a bit jelous. Not trying to be mean. I had the same problem once. You dont mind that she has a boyfriend but that time that she spends with him she could be spending with you right? Or if she is out with different people then she could be again spending it with you..maybe not just with you but still you.. Dont cut ties with her because that will make it worse and cause drama. She likes you as a friend so be her friend. Be there for her when she needs someone to talk to. Let her know that you are always there if she needs something..Become her bestfriend..
2007-11-08 01:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have never felt attraction toward men and you have reached maturity I believe you might have a little dab of gayness in you especially if you have fantasies of mutual affections with your friend [girl]. That may be why you have a hard time calling her your girl friend instead of your friend [girl]. I think that is called denial.
2007-11-08 01:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say wait it out. sounds like a tuff situation, but don't make it harder than it is. only u would know if your affection crosses that "friend only" line. think about it. Do you daydream about her and have fantasies about her?
2007-11-08 00:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋