or could it be someone else? no worries, i'm only 15, just curious.
2007-11-07 16:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Smiley♥ 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I'm found mine and married her :) <3
In all seriousness I did.
The question is: How did I know? How did she know?
Well things happened including "fate". Things I didn't believe in but did. There is no other way to explain it.
We knew, it felt right, we felt a comfort in each other's arms we didn't feel in anyone else. The passion between each other was so passionte and still is. We are alike and yet so different. After many years we are still discovering things that surprise us about each other.
I can go on and on, but my point is I am lucky to have my soulmate, bestfriend, lover, and wife.
2007-11-07 17:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by the_blue_dem0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and I have a soul mate. I love my wife very much and would never do anything to hurt the trust we have together because she is my best friend too.
My soul mate is the one I missed. She is one of the most wonderful ladies I ever know however I had a chance to be with her once and did not go thinking I had something better at the time and I didn't it ended a short time after that day. The sad part for me is I never saw her again. The last time was 30yr ago and we did give each other a big kiss and that was the end for us. You might want to know how I know she was my soul mate. There is never a day I don't thing of her and the last time we talk she said that to me. Why did I let it go. I made my choices for my life I have no regrets and I am happy.
It is one of those thing that if I had it to do over would I have gone with her? Well, if my daughter was not born I would say yes. She was so I would have to say no.
She will always be in my heart and I well always feel some love for what we had together.
Don't forget my wife gets all the love I have for this life very day and kiss too. The rule of our house is every day we all have to hug and kiss before our day starts and at the end of it. Lot of Love there see why I am happy and have no regrets.
Live Long Live Free
2007-11-08 01:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by The answer guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is like asking if Santa Claus flies his sleigh on some other day besides Christmas. And the answer is, yeah, I guess. He flies around, he picks up the Easter Bunny. They whisk through the Bermuda Triangle, crash into the ocean, discover Atlantis, and ride the Lochness Monster all the way back to the top. They hop on a unicorn and they're back at the North Pole for breakfast. What are they having? Eggs. The Easter Bunny bends over and plops a few scrambies in the skillet. Everybody's happy.
Good luck.
2007-11-08 04:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Diplomat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.
I happened to believe that in general people are probably not always married to their soul-mate. If they are lucky enough to find that person than I feel that it makes the entire relationship better in so many ways!
I however have the wonderful privilege of being married to my soul-mate, best friend and also my high school sweetheart. We started dating in 9th grade. And will be celebrating our tenth year of marriage this December.
2007-11-08 00:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by dawnideanm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no, both depending on a particular person. If he/she is worth it, they get to marry their eternal soul-mate. If not, they wander astray. Husbands and wives are made for each other by God. They might think, say, or do things that might be completely different but they are a lot similar to each other. You see, a marriage between two people takes place only when they qualify each other. No, not financially or physically, but morally, spiritually, and literally. Think about that.
Divorce rates are high, because one or neither of them is ungrateful to each other. Being ungrateful to either one of them is like being ungrateful to God. People don’t value anything or anyone anymore. They are more interested in the worldly desires—lust which leads to infidelity and other things. They think about themselves only.
In marriages, there’s no give and take, its just give. Couples should GIVE love, priority, protection, trust, faith, honesty, respect, understanding, happiness, hope, and kindness to each other. These are the things God made for each and every pair.
Spouses are closer than the garments. Just as our clothes protect us and reflect our personality. The soul-mates do the same for each other. But if a person doesn’t cherish what God has made and given him, he doesn’t get anything.
It was a lovely question. Thanks for asking!
2007-11-08 01:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by feminist to the core 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have read of soul mates, but have never had one or seen one. I think it is an incredibly romantic notion, but not very realistic.
I've been married three times and was madly in love with the third one for a few months, but with each I knew that they were doomed to failure because to me, love is never a "for keeps" thing.
One takes what one wants, gives what one can, and enjoys it while it lasts.
Perhaps my soul mate is a Cossack in Russia, or a ship's captain on the Yangtze in China, or a gangster in Cardiff; I'll never meet any of those people.
Years ago, Chrystal Gale had a song and one line of it was always meaningful to me, "When I dream, I dream of you. Maybe someday you will come true."
This has never happened for me. Maybe it will for you.
2007-11-08 01:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by LodiTX 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people get married for varying reasons...some of them stupid.
Some get married and had no business doing so: their relationship was on rocky ground and one of them ( probably the woman) believed that marriage would bring about change. Not!
But many marry, believing it is with their soulmate, but how can this be when many of them end in divorce? do soulmates divorce? do they divorce for the real soul mate? and then again because they found an even better soulmate?
there's and old song that has thes words:
"it's so sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along" this is so stupid! was not the first one, the right one before the "right one" came along?
2007-11-08 00:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by justagorilla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Soul Mates and Twin Flames," Elizabeth Clare Prophet, "Expecting Adam," Martha Beck, and "Sexual Force or the Winged Dragon," O. M. Aivanhov, may be helpful.
Cordially,
j.
2007-11-08 02:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by j153e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about half of marriages fail so that should give you the answer. Your soul mates may change over your lifetime.
2007-11-08 00:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*LOL*
Of course not. Look at the divorce rate. And then, there are many marriages where the couples are just going through motions...Some people meet their so-called soulmate WHILE they're married.
2007-11-08 00:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋