I want to leave then again I want to stay and try and make things work. I'm 27 he's 26. He is very stubborn, and has no patience for me or our son.
2007-11-07 15:07:15 · 12 answers · asked by LivingMyLife 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he sounds quite immature, and not really capable of caring on a relationship or being a good dad. why subject u or your child to this? u need to ask him if he will get some therapy, if not u need to divorce him and move on somewhere where u will have a better life. this man doesn't even like himself so how could he love u or your child.
2007-11-07 23:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the people in here saying to leave him cuz hes a bad example for your son is forgetting something. Whether you leave him or not the dad will still get him with his custody rights at times and so the boy will still be exposed to how his dad treats women whether its you or some other lady. Make sure then you document all incidences so you can prove any abuse if you decide to go that way or you wont be able to protect your son from his influence.
2007-11-08 00:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well think of it this way... If you stay then you will be also guilty of how your son treats women when he grows up. Your son sees how your husband talks to you and he is gonna grow up thinking that is how you talk to women. Do you really want this for your kid? I bet you want better for your son...Alot better! So be the example and leave the man and show your son that it is not acceptable for a man to act like that! And if he is mistreating your son then you should of left a long time ago- Shame on You!
2007-11-07 23:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by bella s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him,,communication is a very important key in a relationship....
if he wont talk or listen,then its time to move on.
your young and you can heal and move beyond this and eventually find someone that loves both you and your son who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
there are many single parents in the world and just because you have ason is no reason to stay in an abusive relationship.
you have to think about your son and whats best for him - he doesnt need to see this abuse or be abused either.
if by chance your husband will listen and talk and agrees that he has been meen, and you want to save the marrage, then you will need to seek counceling
2007-11-07 23:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave now before it gets worse. You do not want your son to be raised in an abusive home. Do whats best for him and you. no woman or child should have to put up with that crap. He is not a good husband or a good father. You and your son deserve better.
2007-11-07 23:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Diamond, is this the way you want your son to treat women?If not then don't set the example that women should accept this type of treatment.
2007-11-07 23:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You tell him it is time for marriage counseling or a divorce take your pick.
By the way, what are some of the things YOU do that tick him off?
Be honest with yourself.
2007-11-07 23:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Suggest marriage counseling. If he says no, then you need to cancel his ticket.
2007-11-07 23:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to leave. It isn't going to change.
2007-11-08 00:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Delta D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the women who considered adultery to be a solution to a few problems so you are on your own
2007-11-07 23:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋