I don't usually do this sort of thing but here it is.... About 6 months ago I started seeing this girl, but I told her we would just date and have sex no relationship or ball and chain. We worked in the same store, but recently the company went out of business and we both started new jobs in different places, she is never available, it is hard to communicate despite her always telling me she misses me and enjoys the time we spend together. I keep bringing it up to her that this is a big issue for me, not even seeing her ect. the other day we were suppose to spend entire Sunday together when her job calls her in for a 7 hour shift, I was very understanding and patient up till then, I stormed out of her house and haven't talked to her since. I do miss her and have strong feelings for her, she feels the same toward me. But I am very confused and apprehensive on what to do next or should I even try to fix things? Is it worth it? What road should I take? I'm confused and hurting.,
2007-11-07 14:53:08 · 7 answers · asked by . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No we are not just having sex anymore, I'm not just in it for sex some nights we spend just messaging or whatever. She knows how I feel, I have showed her by getting some of her things repaired, installing things in her house ect. There just seems to be this great force that doesn't want us to be together, how do I overcome that w/o getting frustrated!
2007-11-07 15:12:24 · update #1
Do you care about the girl ? Are you just
in this for sex ? Sounds like you want sex without
any responsibilities of having a real relationship.
She is better off without you so maybe just
leave her alone.
2007-11-07 15:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ski Freedom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're acting very "ball and chain" for someone who was just a booty call to you. You changed the rules, how is she supposed to know that? There's nothing to fix- by your own admission you had no relationship.
2007-11-07 23:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You started off telling the girl you just wanted sex and you did not want a relationship, "no ball and chain" well you got what you said you wanted. I bet she is waiting for someone that wants more than a booty call. You blew it buddy and if you want her back you are gonna have to show and prove that things have changed.
2007-11-07 23:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Aren't you the sweetheart! Wanting sex, but no relationship. The girl probably woke up and realized you were just using her. Give up and leave her alone. She deserves something better than what you offered her.
2007-11-08 04:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You committed to something and then changed the rules on her. She didn't want the rules changed and now you need to find some one else.
I was the girl that the rules were changed on and I didn't like it either. It wasn't fair. So I 'left'.
2007-11-07 23:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wanted commitment and you didnt so she cut you off and now go bye bye
2007-11-07 23:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why would you stay. She is not showing any respect and you need to expect more for yourself!
2007-11-07 23:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by bella s 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋