2007-11-07 14:49:00 · 14 answers · asked by Macy245 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your marriage can last if you love your husband and you want to stay with your husband and you WANT it to work. If you find that you want to be with a woman instead, then you must be true to yourself, however, do the right thing first and let him know and then let him go.
2007-11-07 14:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by mlvue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can only last if you have some attraction to your husband. You must have had some kind of attraction to him if you got married. As a wife who is also attracted to women, my husband knows about it, I was honest with him up front about whom I found attractive. You need to be up front with him. My husband and I can go out now an if I see a women I think is cute I can let him know, it is like have a best friend. Try it, let your husband know how you feel. But if you are truly attracted to your husband, you need to leave him alone before you cheat on him.
2007-11-07 14:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by shay231214 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray and ask the LORD to deliver you from this and to save your marriage.Read John 3:1-5 and Acts 2:38 and ask yourself why you married him and why you are attracted to women.
2007-11-07 15:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you basically could have been a closet homosexual without knowing it or you could be BI. Either way a marriage is unlikely to work if you are more attracted to the same sex.
Intimacy is important in a relationship and well your hubby is just not going to be able to satisfy you the ways you want.
Maybe it is also time to talk to GOD!
Find a church!
2007-11-07 15:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so, unless your honest with him, and willing to include him in that side of you. I'm not sure you can do that if you're not attracted to him. His pride will be hurt when you tell him so be easy.
2007-11-07 14:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by bossalinni_00 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think so ... you got a husband but want a chick...
2007-11-07 17:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Myra N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please let this poor guy off the hook (divorce) soon so he can meet a woman that will love him for who he is.
It is not fair to him. He will never be able to satisfy you and you know it.
Good luck.
2007-11-07 14:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes involve him in it also it could make marriage stronger and all of you would benefit
2007-11-08 02:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by JENNIFER H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your husband!!! Its actually every mans dream!!! Try to encourage him & them to make sure he is included too, and try a swing club (they r geat), as long as all agree!! Its a great life style!!!
2007-11-07 14:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
my girl is attracted to women well thats why we have threesomes with another woman its great :D
2007-11-07 14:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋