Ok if I have a crush on a guy that is 10 years older than me and married.... and he FLIRTS BACK WITH ME and acts like HE LIKES ME TOO.... and I only want him for one night if you know what im saying and not to get with him in a relationship... is that ok if he is ok with it too?
2007-11-07 14:43:23 · 11 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
he would be cheating himself by not being loyal to his wife.
and you will have to live for the rest of your life, knowing you were involed in something _____well you fit in the blank
how would you feel being his wife?
2007-11-07 14:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well just make certain that you are really after a "one night stand" and you are 100% okay with this.
You have to understand that the guy is married and committed - not to mention 10 years older (thus 10 years a lot wiser than you). Of course it will be okay for the married guy to go for a "one night stand" - assuming he is unhappy with his marriage or just a "no good husband material".
Pls. do not get me wrong but any husband who would go for a one night stand is not somebody who you would respect, trust or even consider. If he cheats on his wife - then what good is he?
LOVE yourself more. Leave some self integrity and self respect. I am sure there are more unattached guys more appropriate for you.
2007-11-11 13:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by addicted too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different societies and cultures view the relationship between men and women differently. They also do not agree with what marriage means.
If you are OK with it and the man is OK with it, then theoretically it would be OK. But adultry is against the law. If the woman being cheated in the deal decides to, she can divorce the guy and financially and socially destroy the man. Its true, you won't be there when the dust settles, but is one night worth all the risk/potential cost?
Spiritually and psychologically, you and the man would both then be damaged goods. You will both lose further trust in members of society, because you, yourselves would be untrustworthy. Future relationships of your own would be rocky at best.
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2007-11-07 15:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you find a single man to sleep with, I think there are plenty available.
Do you really want to be involves with someone who will cheat on his wife? Someone he promised to be faithful to in front of God and our legal system?
If you do sleep with him you better hit the health clinic soon thereafter, you should not trust him with your health! After all his own wife can not trust him, why would his illicit lover trust him?
Ask yourself also what would happen if you end up pregnant- or what if you fall in love- you are opening a big can of worms by even contemplating an affair be it one night or years on end, it can only spell trouble in the form of emotional, physical, and/or spiritual pain!
2007-11-08 02:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if he was OK with it, it's not OK. Marriage is sacred and not to be taken lightly. The drama is never worth it and trust me, the truth will always come out. Somebody will find out and then you've got a mad wife on your hands.
2007-11-07 20:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself. pleasure over purity?
sure you can indulge yourself in things like chocolate, but is this true to your morals?
of course, you may do as you wish. but I highly advise you to forget the whole thing. 10 years older? Wow. No.
And if he's married. Oh my. You could ruin the wife's live, ruin the family, their future plans, it could just send everything in a few people's lives upsidedown. You wouldn't want to be the cause of such pain, would you?
2007-11-07 14:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever get involved with a married man. It is not ok to sleep with someine who belongs to another no matter how horny you both act.
2007-11-07 15:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
its not right but this may lead to something else andi wonder if you can stop it. i mean it could be bad and those type of men well they are bad. they will cheat ont heir wives but they won't leave them remember this. sometimes they do this out of boredom but their true life is witht he family and they could be losing too much to be with you take care.
2007-11-11 13:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be ok if you were both single. He is MARRIED. Move on, get your kicks with someone more worthy.
2007-11-07 22:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Athena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, he is married to your friend. Why would you even be thinking about doing that to her??
2007-11-08 07:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋