2007-11-07 14:03:03 · 6 answers · asked by kaycee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I mean.. I'm damn dead afraid to fall in love. It's not that I'm hurt for any reason..('coz I only had one relationship in the past). I don't let other people get close enough to hurt me and I don't know why. I wanna be single forever.
2007-11-07 16:56:05 · update #1
That is completely normal. You might want to concentrate on other things in your life, and that is totally fine. The only thing is, is that love finds you when you last expect it. If it does...let it happen, it might make you extremely happy. Good luck!
2007-11-07 14:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by dresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal for you to be scared of commitment if you've been in bad relationships in the past or have seen people close to you in bad relationships. Depending on your age, you may just not be ready. You may just have not found that special someone yet that makes your heart skip a beat. Everyone says that you should experience love at least once but the truth is....love hurts. You can be in the best relationship ever but if something happens to that person or if you break up then your heart is broken. You may be avoiding all of that and protecting your heart. Take your time and have fun dating until you're ready to experience love with that special someone.
2007-11-07 14:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by concernone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I'm sure you're young and just want to have fun. I was the same way and then I unexpectedly met my husband. Love finds you even if you aren't looking. Until then, have fun and live life.
2007-11-07 14:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume it is because you are busy working on your education or your career. I see nothing wrong with this. Best of luck with to you.
Your plans may change if that one special person walks through the door.
2007-11-07 14:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to be in a hurry!! Get a good education, marry a woman with heart&compassion, and all will be fine!!
2007-11-07 14:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but be careful.
When you aren't "looking",
is usually when you "find" it ;)
2007-11-07 14:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋