must be crazy. I have a crush on a 37 YO cop who ignores me now because we?
already hooked up, and he had erectile dysfunction. I like him and wish he still thought of me, but he doesn't. Meanwhile there is a nice 36 YO surgeon in his last year of school willing to pay half my rent and help me with things. I however just dont have that lusty knid of attraction for him. Should I try and make it work and have him help me get my apt. I dont know what to do?
2007-11-07 13:54:57 · 9 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1st. of all let the COP gooo!! Most (not all) are cheaters and love those cop groupies!!
now on the surgeon if you don't feel attracted to him, don't do it. You would be leading him on and using him for his $$ and thats not nice. You would hurt him if he was really fond of you or really cares about U.
Now, if he goes into it as a friend with benefits situation then I guess both of you would be filling a need and its all good.
Good luck!
2007-11-07 14:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by livingadream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if your heart is not into it,
then it's not going to work.
And how fair is that to the other guy (the surgeon), who sounds like he does have his heart into it?
If you are really into the cop, then I think you need to make a move on him.
I think he's just embarrassed by what happened, and if you still show interest in him, that will show him that it's ok and you don't think any less of him.
But how else is he going to know that if you don't show him?
2007-11-07 22:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get to know the person first, before you accept support. You do not want to be obligated. Like the other person said, grow up a bit and learn to live on your own.
2007-11-07 22:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by Tony d:-) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay away from the cop! The surgeon sounds good, but only date him during the week leaving your week-ends free for the real "prince" to come along! LOL!
2007-11-07 22:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by nancie_usa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont see why you had to mention the cop. but what you should do is mak e sure he isnt in it for sexual stuff and after that then it will be ok but if he is then dont do it. your to good to just be that easy to be bought over.
2007-11-07 21:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by hannah c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some respect for yourself, get a job and get your own apt. Otherwise, you are no more than a tramp.
2007-11-08 05:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to grow up before getting involved with anyone....
2007-11-07 21:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to support yourself !
2007-11-07 22:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by ladybug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO
"""HOW YOU DOIN"""
as Joey would say looking you up and down.
2007-11-07 22:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋