What would you do and how would you feel?

Question

If your boyfriend of 2 years left you while you were ill in the hospital and told you never to call him again , because he developed feelings for another girl? We are both 29 yrs old. ANd I helped him through so much with this threats of suicide when he was in depair.

I cant mentally get over this and I dont know how to help myself. He did not care if I was alive or dead....that was it. It was over.

Answer 1

Well my sister got over her husband of 2 years...she supported his monkey-*** through all his shortcomings...he made his choice now she's moving on without him...I understand the difficulties you are facing but you can move on, if his dumbass left you high and dry it's time to pick up where you left off and move on, you're minus a moron not dead....

Answer 2

Mmmmm... I feel sympathy for you, but I think it is a good thing that you figured out his mental imbalance before you got married. Don't waste any more of your life worrying about him. He's a manipulator and he is only interested in what he could get, and when you couldn't give anymore because you needed it yourself, he found someone else to feed his ego. This is the person you want? What need does this person fulfill in you, the need to give? Find someone with whom you can give and take and have a mutual relationship. Find out what it's like, it's wonderful, just right for a person like you!

Answer 3

I would obviously be hurt, and heartbroken. But I think as a way of coping, I would just get pissed off at him, and remember all the things I hated about him, and focus on that. Maybe it is unhealthy, I don't know, but I think it is easier to get over someone when i do that, and it has always worked, and I have had my heartbroken many times. I know it hurts now, but You WILL be able to move on. Remember "This too shall pass!"

Answer 4

Hey girl, you are better than that. If he doesn`t want you, You must start being your own hero.You are the one, the best, the one who matters. Live your life ,for yourself,do what you want, and don`t let some man dictate your life. you don`t need it. you be strong and learn thru some education, that you are worthwhile and no man has the right to mess your head up. Take it from me I know. men have come and gone in my life and at no time , did I let my life go under ,because of it. I am stronger than that and you are too ,dear!

Answer 5

This guy is a total scumbag. I know that doesn't make you feel better now, but time does heal everything. One day you will look back on this time and realize how lucky you are to be without him or anyone like him. May he rot in hell.

Answer 6

Well...I would be really, really pissed off. But if he wants to be that way, you deserve better. You don't deserve some guy that's going to leave you like that. So maybe it's better that it ended now instead of wasting your time with him for more years.

Answer 7

Wow-what a mighty good man! You shouldn't be worrying about it, you should be helping him with his bags.
Maybe you love him, ok, but you are in love with a loser. You deserve better. It's a blessing in disguise.