i want to start wearing a real bra, but don't know how to approach my mom about it. HELP!
2007-11-07 13:26:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Tell her that you fell uncomfortable now that your growing and you need something to make you feel more "secure."
My mom knew when to buy me one since she didn't want anything just popping out so i really don't understand when mothers don't get their daughters bras once they start growing...
Write down what you wanna say before you tell her and practice it. Believe me it really works and if you never ask you'll end up being embarrassed...
2007-11-07 13:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by **LLL** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, its not a matter of if you WANT to wear a bra, but if you need to. People can tell if you really dont need one. Seriously, after two weeks of wearing it, I didnt even care..
If you honestly do need one, Start slowly. Try kohls, they have cute ones. Show your mom your serious by getting skin toned ones or white ones. This tells her you NEED a bra- for function and coverage, you dont just want to wear one so you look cute when you change. Good luck
2007-11-07 21:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by blondiie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey next time she takes u to a store walk past bras n undies say mom i need a new bra and piont out a cute onehahaâ¥worked 4me when i started wearing one
2007-11-08 01:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...well, wasn't aware there were fake bras. but i would just be honest with her. If she hasn't already approached you about bra shopping, then next time you are out shopping with her, ask to get one. My mom just basically took me out and said it is time.
please do yourself a favor and get fitted at a department store. they are best at finding the right bra for you and can be a neutral person if you and your mom have issues.
2007-11-07 23:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about it. She wears them so it's not a suprise! Or if you want to go to the store and talk to the ladies in the bra dept and get them to help you out.
2007-11-07 21:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go into a store like la senza girl looking at clothes go to the undie secion & ask your mom to buy you some then look right beside the bras and she should clue. If she dosen't just hint her!(or tell her you hate the bump and you hate the bump!
2007-11-07 21:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by HotterthanU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to her that you need to go shopping to buy some new under garments. She might respond with "you have plenty of under ware" but just say "that's not what I am talking about Mom" She should get the hint and it would open up a line of communication between you.
2007-11-07 21:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you would be more comfortable in a bra and say you would like to buy one.
or when you are shopping casually go into VS Pink or a lingerie area and pick up a bra.
moms are actually more understanding than you think when it comes to these things
2007-11-07 21:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say (mom am growing up and i need a bra.)
that should work
2007-11-07 21:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up an exucuse to go to the store for something else, and then while your there comfromt her about it, or even just stick in it the cart and she'l take a hint :D hope it helped.
2007-11-07 21:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by E. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋