is there a possibility that when you have a second chance of 2nd marriage that it would be a success...even though you both had a roller coaster marriage from history...
2007-11-07 13:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that depends. Some women go back to an abuser over and over again and it never works and others are able to learn from the past and make it work.
If this is you, I would say be very cautious and make sure to get counseling before trying again.
I would also say go to handwriting wizard and learn the basics of handwriting analysis in order to judge the other person. This has been proven over many years to be some 80% accurate and even with that you can tell a lot about a person as far as trust, emotion and so on.
the main thing is counseling though before giving the second marriage anothr chance. Good luck to you!
2007-11-07 13:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the circumstances are the same the odds are that the result will be the same. Think back and see what would have made the first marriage work for the duration. Evaluate the second by comparing facts and people. The only thing that makes a marriage is love and a willingness to give back to the marriage what you want from the marriage and a partner that embraces the same philosophy. Sounds easy but most complicate the entire process with misarranged priorities.
2007-11-07 17:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage takes two, just because the first marriage was a roller coaster doesn't mean that the second one will be. Both of you learned from the first marriage. You and your partner will have your ups and downs, marriage is hard and it takes allot of work to make it last. If you two love each other and are willing to work together, then it will last. Good luck
2007-11-07 13:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by Hates 2 B Harassed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a second marriage will not work out. I have been married two times and sometimes I have wished that I had never remarried again. I had a very bad marriage my first marriage and I had wanted to be married again. Sometimes I feel like it's not even worth going through again. My ex and my husband are sometimes too much alike. Sometimes when a person gets married again they can bring their first marriage with them. It can sometimes be hard letting go of a bad marriage. I had spent 25 years in an abusive marriage.
2007-11-07 13:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience I am now with my 2ND husband of 5 yrs and happier then I have ever been I found when we marry the first time it usually isn't for the right reason and from that experience we learn what to do and not to do and how to treat and not to treat and what to expect with all the lessons learned in the first we carry more knowledge with us and we have a great chance of making it work. It worked for me and we are raising 8 children together.
2007-11-07 13:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by doodiemoonwalker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there's a better chance that the 2nd marriage will work...
Why? Because you've both been through hell and know what not to do!!
2007-11-07 13:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be the ideal situation in that case. Think about it: both of you know what you don't want in a marriage, it would only fail if you both didn't talk about what you do and do not want in the marriage.
2007-11-07 13:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking this question tells me that you do have some doubts, enough to concern you to the extent to where you need to seek some kind of advice. My advice to you would be to slow down with this relationship---don't rush into marriage feeling doubt.
2007-11-07 14:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋