I have a guy friend but i meet him this year actually one month a go he always call me cutie face. He comment my pics saying omg you are so hot or you are such cutie face and he call me like babe and when we are at the school he get happy when he see me or he always hug me but not like a normal hug because he hug me like really hard or when he see and sometimes when i touch his hair ( not in the love way) he does a face like so cute and this days he told me "i love you" and sometimes i see him hes looking at me in whole the class. sometimes he touch my back he really freak me out but he had go out with girls so i dont know if hes gay =SS soo i wanna know if he is
2007-11-07 12:25:02 · 35 answers · asked by pregunton 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He's totally gay dude, a normal guy would never do these kinds of things that you said he did to you. And just because he had go out w/ girls, it doesn't mean that he's not gay, I think that he's still confused about his sexuality, a bisexual person is totally different, because if he's a bisexual, do you think that his acts towards you would be so gay? I think that the best way for you to know is to ask him the truth, if he's really gay, it depends on you if you still wanna be his friend.
2007-11-07 13:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Light 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think if he is causing you discomfort, then it does not matter if he is gay or straight. Right? You will have to maybe speak to him about it.
If you are interested in him and wonder if he is gay then you could just ask him.
He might just be messing around with you, does he think you are?
I dont really know too many guys who touch anothers hair unless they are doing it in a joking way to push at them or something like that.
These are just my thoughts. :) Good Luck!
2007-11-07 12:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by College Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he strongly is. but being that he is still in school girls that are interested in you will secrectly put a friend up to play on this game with you to see how you are going to react and male students as well. Have you noticed no one is saying anything just watching. Either the other students no of this game or that he his and he is not well liked.
2007-11-07 12:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by shirley j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a way he could be flirting with you. But if you want to find out for sure you should probably just ask him, but be careful because he might be sensitive about it and if he's not gay he would probably feel insulted.
If his behaviour is freaking you out, just tell him to back off and he'll probably leave you alone.
2007-11-07 12:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask.
Like, "Hey those are some cute girls over there. Maybe we should ask them for a date." Then if he isn't interested ask if he is gay.
Or
If he is a good friend the next time he touches your back just tell him nicely that it freaks you out when he does that so please don't do it anymore. Then, you won' t have to ask b/c he is a good friend.
2007-11-07 12:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by ilikeemwild2002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should ask him.
However, does it matter to you if he is?
It sounds as if he is very comfortable around you.
If he has not made an advance toward you, no worries. Either you are not his type, or he isn't gay.
If, when you consider that you may not be his type, it bothers you......you may need to ask yourself why it bothers you.
Just a thought.
I appreciate the fact that you are asking questions.
That tells me you will not be the one to beat him up, if he is gay. xoxoxox
2007-11-07 12:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by pj therapy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way to know for sure is to ask him yourself, but from what you say there is some possibility he is bi or gay. There is also an equally probable possibility he is just joking around, that's just who he is, or that you are overreacting. If you really want to know, talk to him about it, but otherwise just don't fret and just wait and see.
2007-11-07 12:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is only important if you are attracted to him sexually.
If not, then who cares, He is a good and loving friend.
Some young people are struggling with their sexuality so don't add to his dilemma by demanding an explanation.
Just accept the friendship as best as you can. Be supportive, BUT be clear about your own sexuality so you do NOT lead this young man on to you unnecessarily!
2007-11-07 12:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by bugsie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it's making you uncomfortable, be honest about it. he might only be dating girls to try and hide the fact that he may be gay, or if he's bi he could just be interested in both. If you're not interested in him, don't encourage him or be dishonest, just tell him the truth and save both of you from trouble later on
2007-11-07 12:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Radiotrashrocket 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him...privately, of course. Regardless of his answer, tell him you want to remain friends, but that you're uncomfortable with the touching and comments
2007-11-07 12:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋