im extremely self conscience and have super low self esteem when it comes to girls and just everyday life. i dont think anyone likes me and i dont think im attractive at all and everyone seems to think im a druggie. what can i do to prove to them i dont do drugs and feel good about myself?
2007-11-07 10:58:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you dont do drugs, you have to prove NOTHING to others. You stand in your own truth. YOu are probably a teenager so these feelings you are having are not unique nor bad...they are just feelings. They WILL pass. In the meantime, what can YOU do to take care of yourself? What is it you like to do for fun? If you are an outdoor person, I suggest you get busy with exercise. This activity will help boost your morale and self esteem as your body releases endorphins and other wonderful "home made" drugs. Next, so what if no one else likes you? They are no better or worse than you. (I'm sure if you search, you WILL admit that there ARE in fact, people who DO like you)
These may not be the people you WANT to like you but there are people who DO.
Finally, we attract what we are...sooo..if you want to attract healthy people in your life, you have to take responsibility for yourself and make your own life better. No one can do this for you. You may consider joining a group of people who share your interests/problems and become connected to that group. You have something to offer others....you may or may not know what that is...but trust that God will use your experiences to help others. Be willing.
2007-11-07 11:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur appearence says alot about you..and influences the way u feel about urself...what is it about the way u look that makes people think ur a druggie? what can u do to change ur look and make u feel better about urself at the same time? If possible start workin out..goin to the gym..invest in a new wardrobe..get a hair cut...get a tan...involve urself in new and different activites that will get u out the house, around new people, and generally improve the quality of ur life...good luck!
2007-11-07 11:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Darsh(Say it like u mean it) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have simlar issues I just take it a day at a time and hope for the best. As for people thinking your a druggie there is no way for you prove to the world that you arent. unless they take the time to get to know you.
keep telling yourself this quote and live by this, it will make you feel better:"Our own heart, and not other men's opinions, forms our true honor."
2007-11-07 11:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** those loosers i feel same way in hs i founded anti cliche which lasted for yrs just got in touch with one guy i knew for close to 20yrs
2007-11-07 11:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋