Just because im late 6days which is not a long time they believe i having a baby. I dont wanna take a test because i dont think i am. Today i feel like my stuff is coming down so there you go im not. They really want to to. My mother in law has made me start taking vitiams and stuff. I think there going to be upset when they findout im not. What do you think?
2007-11-07 10:41:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i dont tell them my hubby did
2007-11-07 10:45:32 · update #1
i didnt tell them i was late he did
2007-11-07 10:47:04 · update #2
They are going to be dissapointed, but what grandparents wouldn't be? They can get over it, it is not your time. Do not let them upset you and if they do, talk to your husband about it. It is your decision to get pregnant, not theirs.
2007-11-07 10:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by CourtneyRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't say that just because you feel like you are getting your period you aren't pregnant, i thought i was gonna get my period everyday and nothing ever came. No one can make you take a vitamin, actually no one can make you do anything you don't wanna do. Grandparents are always excited when it comes to grandchildren.
If you take a test and it comes back negative then you can say here is my test i'm not having a baby, but how will you ever know for sure unles you do take a test? If you are you need to see a doctor to get proper prenatal care so i would take a pregnancy test to be sure.
It sounds to me tho as if you don't want any kids just yet, so perhaps taking BC might be an option for you.
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2007-11-07 10:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wishmaster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure they are very anxious to be grandparents and unfortunately are not being considerate of you and your personal life. Grand babies bring out some strange things in our parents :o) It is nice that they care so much but I think you should probably remind your hubby that you would like to keep things a little more private. Maybe make a deal to not tell them anything next time until you are sure. In the mean time if they are upset I am sure it will blow over I bet it is more disappointment then anger.
2007-11-07 10:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Oh me oh my...♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they may be a little disappointed but you need to explain you want a little more time with your hubby b4 baby they will understand also you need to tell your husband that the proper thing is to not tell anyone till 3 months preggo bc what would happen if you lost the baby you would be extremly sad and if everyone knows it only makes it harder people would always be asking so hows the baby and you have to go through the stuff all over even if this isn;t how you feel just tell him anyways
2007-11-07 11:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you tell them in the first place that it was late. If they are all upset I wouldnt feel bad about it because you should never get excited about someone having a baby unless you have the test from the doctor to prove its 100% true.
2007-11-07 10:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offence but how can she make you take vitiamins ! and Im not trying to be mean but who really cares what she thinks ? one you don't know for sure your not and if you dont want them to be disapointed then how do they know your period is 6 days late ? stop telling them so much info its you and your partner that should know all this only untill you are pregnant for sure not you and your inlaws . .. Dont disclose to much info and you will give them no reason to be upset . good luck
Well you need to be having a chat to your hubby about keeping things more private to avoid any disapointment and presure on you. and if he cant keep quiet then maybe think of telling your hubby when you are pregnant for sure :)
2007-11-07 10:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by gemma b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your in-laws are way too involved at this point. This should be you and your husbands decision when you get prego. What do they do, chart your cycle? Tell them politely to butt out! They will be the first call you make when you get the news, but until then leave you both alone. Geeez!!! Hang in there!
2007-11-07 10:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by Gator 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to find out, why would you tell people you might be pregnant if you dont care yourself to know. if you miss your period you need to know so you can get to the doctor and take better care of yourself. just because you think you arent doesnt mean you are not pregnant. i thought i wasnt but guess what i was! i think my period was about to start, but guess what it never did and im having a baby in 4 weeks. if they are upset then fine, but its not like they are gonna be mad at you. im sure they will feel dissapointed, but why dont you just take a test and stop being stubborn
2007-11-07 10:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by LuckyMama06 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well hon i think u should take a test just to b on the safe side cuz i was late to and then i found out i was pregant with my son u can still bleed while ur pregant and they might b a lil upset that ur not but they will get over it
2007-11-07 10:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that they overreacted and you need to tell them that your not having a baby. It will get it off your chest and you will feel much better once your've told them and next time maybe they shouldnt jump to conclusions or you shouldnt tell them your late unless you know your preg for sure.
2007-11-07 10:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jaymz! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋