if your 14 how do you know if you can be preganent or not??

Question

i did have sex... it wuz protected... and i did get ma period, but i dont feel well all the time,im alwayz tired, ma boobs hurt, and ma stomach iz wlays hurtin mi, i cant buy a preggy test, b/c ma momz cant noe that i had sex... and i moved away from my boifriend, so idk wut 2 do if i am, n btw u noe u did stupid shyt when u wuz young 2 so u acnt even blame mi, it wuz the first time

damn ya'll never heard of computer talk!!!

and im not a virgin, but i use condomns, so yall dont need 2 b nasty wit mi, im doin dis 4 ma homegurl, i had smartsex... get it right!!

first of all, you should learn a thing or two about me before u judge me, which i find disrespectful towards me. i am a straight A student also, and I'm in all advanced classes, so because i use computer talk doesn't mean I'm stupid. and second of all, im not preganent, i do have sex, but i'm not. so you all need to read this, and set your facts straight. i said i'm doing this for my friend, not for me

Answer 1

...hmmm..well i see it like this..if you think you are "adult" enough to engage in sex at 14 yrs...then i say you are "responsible" enough to take the responsibility for your "adult" decision...wasted youth sex education student. Wanted to Grow up fast then start to act like it...go and buy your Pregnancy test and deal with the result....hope your lesson is learned...

Answer 2

Yo I agree with musicpan. Age has nothing to do with this. If you're not ready to do children, then don't do sex.
And another thing, I don't care if it's Internet talk or not, reading your question brought my IQ down 20 points. Like musicpan said, close your legs and open a book. You can't even spell pregnant right nevertheless do it.
It doesn't matter if you used condoms, the pill, or anything else. Safe sex is no sex at all. This is one of the things in teen society today that's bringing all of this negative attention to us. Teenage pregnancy.
Don't cuss me out. Don't make fun of me. Don't even dare to talk bad about me. I made mistakes, too, but they were small and I learned from them. I come from a household with both of my parents who got married before having kids. I'm a straight A student, I respect authority, and I'm a virgin. So don't even try to criticize me mini or anyone else. I'm just telling the truth.
Every action has a reaction. You made a bad action and got a bad reaction.

P.S. Okay, if you're a straight A student, take advance classes, and such, why are you doing such a stupid thing and on top of that for your friend? You say you're smart and such, but your actions make you look like an unintelligent girl. Until you straighten up and stop this mess, in my opinion, you'll never be smart. You have the grades and stuff, but do you actually retain things that are being said? If you ever read my question again, please here me out. It's not worth it. You're 14. You have your entire life ahead of you. Would you destroy it with just one more night? Who knows, you might be back on this site again asking "How am I suppose to tell my parents that I'm pregnant?"
I hope you've heard me out in my opinion. If you don't listen and get pregnant between, I won't hesitate to say, I told you so.

Answer 3

I think I understood what you said...

Buy a kit at the mall. Take the test in the mall restroom instead of taking it home. If you're really worried or embarrassed, go to a mall or store a long way away from home. If it's been more than 4 weeks, the test should be accurate.

If you used protection (and if you didn't do anything stupid, like getting sperm from it all over your hands and then touching your vagina) you should be very safe. If there was a problem with the condom, you would have noticed. (once they start to tear, they crumble into a ring of rubber pretty fast -after all, they're stretched out.)

(Unless you think your bf pulled a trick with the condom because he knew you were moving away... is he that much of a jerk? Only you know him well enough to decide.)

If you had your period, then odds are very very good that you're not pregnant.

I bet the symptoms are just because of stress and worry. If you keep wondering long enough if this is sore or that is making you nauseous, it will seem that way. Stress and worry can even cause your period to be late or skip.

So stop worrying. Buy a lottery ticket. The way you describe things, you're more likely to win the lottery than find yourself pregnant.

Oh, and be sure to have protection for next time. If you're that worried, also get spermicidal cream to squirt in there to add to the condom protection. (Heck, get a tube of hair gel or something the top unscrews off of; empty it out and **wash it out**, and fill it... so your parents think you just have hair product). I think its better to fool your parents than wind up pregnant.

Answer 4

First off dear. Learn how to spell. I am 13 years old and I do not see any excuse for how many typos you make.

Second, you should not be having sex at such a young age because your virginity is special and you should lose it to the guy you truly love.

Third, you are not pregnant if you had your period. If you are worried about being pregnant, go take a test. I don't care if you are scared about your mother finding out because what are you going to do if you are pregnant???

You should have thought about all the consequences of your actions first. You disrespected your mother by having sex at such a young age because any parent in their right mind would want their child to wait to have sex. If you are too scared to let your mother know you are sexually active then you are not ready for sex both mentally and physically.

Answer 5

I didn't do "stoopid shyt" as a kid and at 14 I wasn't having sex. wow, ok. I didn't have sex until I was 18. I must be a loser. haha.

anyway, 14 is high school so go to the school nurse and ask for a pregnancy test but ask for it to be confidential.

or go to the health clinic with a friend and get a pregnancy test. that's free as well.

if you had a period you're likely not pregnant.

Answer 6

First, you have unprotected sex. [Really a stupid idea]
Then, you miss your period. [Start Freaking Out]
Next, you take a pregnancy test. [Hope it's negative!]

Then you learn from this. YOU STOP HAVING SEX. Do you really think a baby is the only reason to have protected sex?? Does ANYONE realize that everytime you allow some one to have sex with you you're RISKING YOUR LIFE! Is it really worth it?

Age has NOTHING to do with finding out if you're pregnant or not. If you have to ask a question like this then you are too young and not mature enough to have a baby. Nor are you educated in school and life enough. Also anyone who dares to have sex with you can go to JAIL. Once again, is it really worth it?

Close your legs and open a book!

[Sorry, but there's really no other way to say it.]

Answer 7

If you can get pregnant? You can't know for sure. Just assume that you can, even if you haven't had your first period yet.

If you are pregnant? If you haven't had anything close to sex, you can't be pregnant. You need a guy's sperm cell inside of you fertilizing one of your eggs for that to happen. If you have done something that might have allowed that to happen, then only a pregnancy test or a checkup by your doctor can tell for sure.

Answer 8

The same way every other pregnant woman finds out. A pregnancy test, than a trip to the doctor for some blood work.

And I can blame you all I want, because I still have my virginity. And please, try to spell correctly. Use a dictionary if necessary, I could barely understand a single word you wrote.

And your mother is going to know you had sex if in 9 months you give birth to a baby during dinner.

Answer 9

Better get ready to have the talk with your parents your boyfriend and his parents after you take a test from the drug store....you've got the symptoms.
My married sister had "protected sex" everytime.
They had four children....
No such thing as "protected sex" - only abstinence -
If you end up not being pregnant - I hope you learned something.

Answer 10

im getting so fed up hearing these questions ovverrr and oveerr from young little girls 13 14 15 yrs old. please just keep ur legs closed until ur married or atleast out the house. i understand that we all get horny. to be honest at 14 i was still collecting barbies.i never thought about having sex. i agree with everything the pple above me are saying to you. you let it happen. take sex ed for real you kids need to know about these things because its gettin wayy out of control

Answer 11

You can get pregnant at any time. If you have started your period then you can definitely get pregnant. The best bet is to get a pregnancy test since you can't rely on the whole "missing periods" since your period probably has not regulated yet.