2007-11-07 09:24:58 · 21 answers · asked by monicanena 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well yeah i did i dont think i was wrong my husband did want kids and he has one and i wanted kids and he wouldnt let me go so i cant be with him that was so unfair anyway he is happy now
2007-11-07 09:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by baby #2 due Jan 17th 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. That would be terribly dishonest and demonstrate a serious flaw in a relationship. Good relationships about built on honesty, trust, and respect for the other person. If a woman is trying to become pregnant and her boyfriend/husband thinks that she is trying NOT to become pregnant, there is a serious issue there.
2007-11-07 09:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but I know a girl who did that to her husband and now that their baby is here the father barely helps with anything and is too preoccupied with school and work to spend time with his wife or his kid. I would NEVER do that to my husband. I want him to be happy about being a daddy, not pressured or stressed.
2007-11-07 09:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by tallgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Our baby was a surprise. I was on BC. But we are excited.
My husband and I keep an open line of communication and trust and I truly couldn't bring myself to hide something like that from him.
It takes two to bring a child in to the world, so it should take two to know about it, and make decisions about it.
2007-11-07 09:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by BlueBlue 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, just the opposite. I was always telling my husband to be careful but he admitted to purposely being "less than quick on the draw" I wanted to wait a year. He was obviously ready now!!!
2007-11-07 09:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is that really possible? I mean if your trying to get pregnant, you kinda have to be on the same page with your partner. I guess you could stop taking your pills and just not tell them and yes that would be bad.
2007-11-07 09:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by burtongirl10 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No but my mom did when she got pregnant with my little sister. She stopped taking her BC and 6 months later ended up pregnant with my little sister. I was 17 and watched their marriage almost end because of it. They worked it out but I still think it was a horrible thing to do.
2007-11-07 09:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by TLS (Caitlin is coming! 5/15/08) 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nope. We've been in this together from the beginning. I wouldn't want to push him in to something he wasn't ready for. He even knew the first day that I missed my period. I couldn't imagine not telling my best friend everything.
2007-11-07 09:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Brownie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well he wanted to wait a while to try again but it happened and now i,m 26weeks pregnant with our first and it's a boy he is due Feb10th 2008 and now he tells me he is the most excited man and can't wait for his son
2007-11-07 09:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by My Hubby Rob&Son Dakota Robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just happened and the first thing I did was tell him. Apart from that, I would never treat him so horribly. I love him too much and it is his decision too as much as mine.
2007-11-07 09:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by Grant N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋