I have been married for 12 years, and even now every time I give my husband a kiss, he gets a hard on... Is this normal for men who has been married for that long? How many men still get this way when their wife kisses them, and how many women still do this to their husbands after just a kiss?
2007-11-07 09:19:25 · 22 answers · asked by ESP123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is still attracted to you. Take it as a compliment and yes I would definately continue.
2007-11-07 09:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by sheilakel 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it’s normal....but, maybe you husband has a new erogenous zone (and you found it). Aren’t you happy that your husband of 12 years after 12 years is still sexually turned on by you? There is one thing you can do to offset an awkward erogenous zone, namely, create a new one. You start by desensitizing the old one first, then creating a new one. (have fun)
More often than not, I have heard horror stories from friends that have been married for fewer years than you. The spouses either no longer find them sexually appealing, or worst, they have found someone else sexually appealing. So, while your situation is a little awkward, I'm sure you can find a compromise that pleases both you and your horny husband.
2007-11-07 17:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by grlfrnd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the best way to get my hubby going. Not from just a little peck but a long, wet, intimate kiss. After that, he's all mine and ready to go! Sometimes I'll do it at a sort of inappropriate time to see if it still works and it always does. He's always been that way. Keep up the good smooching! You're husband's response is a good one!!!
2007-11-07 17:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
now your just bragging to make the rest of us feel inadequate come on admit it lmao.
Consider yourself loved and still hungered for this is a good thing I dont know anyone who has that effect after 12 months let alone 12 years you must be doing something right or your lying lmao.
2007-11-07 17:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are blessed with such a wonderful husband... It just proves how much he cares and ho much you still turn him on... Please don't complain..... Some men no days don't even want to be kissed after 12 years... Have a happy day... Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-11-07 17:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that is true my husband is the same and we have 10 years together, i feel the same and i think is a good ting because you can say after all this years we still fell attractive to each other.
2007-11-07 17:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by izzie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is very normal. I get a hard on when I have a normal conversations with women that I find attractive, even at work.
2007-11-09 20:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Lucky! Your husband still wants you....bad....after 12 years!!!
2007-11-07 17:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it just happens. About like when you scratch a dog in the right spot to make that leg start kicking like it is doing the scratching. Remember how and where so that when you are ready for some.
2007-11-07 17:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
totally normal and wonderful. it isn't every man that can still get turned on by his wife after many years of marriage. it's the same in our 24 yr marriage. ain't it great?
2007-11-07 17:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋