AND MAKE TIME FOR SEX
2007-11-07 09:08:07 · 7 answers · asked by k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Flip the script on him. Make him do your duties and you do his. That will get him to understand.
2007-11-07 09:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him handle all the responsibilities while you relax for a while. One of two things will happen; he will either be two tired for sex or you'll get some of the much needed relaxation and be ready for some sex. Its a win win.
Oh yeah you have to give all your responsibilities to him, but call him and ask where your keys are and where he put your white shirt, also call at the office about 4pm and ask whats for dinner and then call again on your way home and ask again. Then once he finishes the dishes and is about to settle down for the evening ask him if he made anything sweet for dessert and if so if he'll make you a bowl or whatever then ask him where the remote is.
2007-11-07 17:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been trying to get mine to understand that for the last 8 years.
I think men think we are wonder women who never get tried when we work 8 hours, take and pick up kids from day care, go to the market, go to baseball practice with the kids, go home and cook dinner, check homework, get the kids showered, do a load of laundry, get clothes ready for the next day, shower our selves and then expect us to "be in the mood."
2007-11-07 17:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oohhhh, Talk to Dr. Laura about this one!! She'll give you HELL!!!
Do you want to STAY MARRIED?!?!?!?! Then make the time for SEX!! Your MAIN responsibility is to keep that marriage sound and happy so you're kids don't grow up with a single mom. Your family is more important than your job.
If you go ahead and have sex, 9 times out of 10, won't you end up enjoying it??? Then just do it!!
2007-11-07 17:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by serene e 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
K,
I have ONE piece of advice for you ......
A man wants:
a maid in the parlor,
a cook in the kitchen,
and a whore in the bedroom ......
If you don't have enough energy to do all three ......
We're fine if the house is a mess, the dishes aren't done, and we have to take you out for dinner .......
We're not so fine if the 3rd thing isn't getting done.
Just re-prioritize your task list..... Do the sex first, then clean if you still have the energy !!! Its also more likely he'll be willing to help out if he's getting it on a regular basis - its a win-win situation.
2007-11-07 17:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You assign half of the household chores and the raising of the kids to him.
Then you will both be equally tired or equally ready for sex!
2007-11-07 17:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him do your job for a day. He will understand. Just leave and go somewhere all day, and make him pick up the kids, cook, clean, help with homework, and take them where they need to go. All after a long, hard day at his job....
2007-11-07 17:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋