2007-11-07 08:52:28 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really need to know from someone who has done it.
2007-11-07 08:58:18 · update #1
Sometime u have to settle. Now I want him
2007-11-07 09:05:45 · update #2
what happen to smartypants answer
2007-11-07 23:25:51 · update #3
YOU ARE A TRICK
2007-11-07 09:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by tammy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You already asked this question ffs.
You have such low self esteem your willing to try and remove a cheat from 1 woman , you dont think he'll cheat on you ? come off it lovey your living in fantasy land , if he'll cheat with you , he'll cheat on you its the circle of life.
Were you physically and sexually abused as a child/teen? I would guess you were , other wise you wouldnt be settling for 2nd best , married men dont leave their wives for the bit of pussay on the side , your a f*** buddy thats all you'll ever be face facts your just not worth it to him.
I'd say to go find a single man as I did when you asked this last week but why waste my breath your to busy getting off on the abuse yahoo QnA's is giving you.And besides single guy's are probably better off without you anyways cause you'll just be out hunting your next married victim who wont want you either.
Looks fade with age , they stop wanting the pussay cause it's been used by to many married men your going to end up alone and old . Not much to look forward to for you.
2007-11-07 09:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want someone that is already married. Why do you want sloppy seconds?? You would be sleeping alone at night knowing that the man you like or maybe even love is sleeping in another bed with a women he vowed to be with through sickness and health. You will always be his women on the side he will never leave his wife for you. Just think of it in that way, Put your self in her shoes. WHY DO YOU WANT TO BE A HOME WRECKER. There are plently of singles hotties out there, move on!!
2007-11-07 09:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by PG with #3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell you tricks to get a married man. What, do you just want to sleep with him once? do you want to be his girlfriend on the side? do you want him to leave the wife for you? There are different methods for all three of them.
As far as getting him to leave the wife, it would all depend on his level of unhappiness with her and if there are children involved. When there are children involved, normally they just do not leave for the sake of the children...unless they are really, REALLY in love. Which doesn't sound like you have with him or else you wouldn't be posting here, right?
If it's just to get him for the night, that's a simple matter of drunken seduction. But for some reason I don't think that would be enough for what you're seeking.
2007-11-07 09:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Without bashing you, I will be honest. There is nothing that you can do. The only way he will cheat on his wife is if he has it in him. You can flirt, dress sexy...do whatever, but if he is not a cheater you will never 'get' him. You have to ask yourself why you would want to do this. When I was way younger I had an affair w/a married man. The longer it lasted, the less I liked him for what he was doing. I did not feel to hot about myself either.
Just really think about the moral implications of this before you try to 'get' anyone that is married.
2007-11-07 09:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lost for Some Time 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tricks??..F u ck his brains out.
Unfortunately sweetie..you will be a screwed up emotional mess. I'll tell you that, WELL ahead of your foolish plan.
Will you listen to wisdom? I certainly hope so.
Married people who screw around are seriously f ucked up and you are going to be disgarded like yesterday's garbage. He will have absolutely no use for you whatsoever. After all the sex I mean.
2007-11-07 09:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by zanthus 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is not much of a trick to get him. You jut make real easy what he wants. You should leave him alone though and try for a better relationship. If he cheats to be with you he will cheat on you.
2007-11-07 09:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to "trick" him, that's not going to be a good relationship for you. You need to do some growing up and think of how to get yourself in a good, healthy relationship where you both want each other and are not involved in relationships with anyone else.
2007-11-07 09:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are going after a married man than I am sure you already know what tricks to turn to get him...of course you do know what kind of woman turns tricks right?
2007-11-07 09:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Notagain 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
::rolls eyes::
Get your own man, and leave the married ones alone.
Besides - if he's married and you can still "get him" then he's not worth having.
And if you've been with him for three years and he hasn't left his wife yet, you should know by now that you're never going to "get him" - you'll always be the piece on the side who's good enough to sleep with but not good enough to leave his wife for.
Sorry.
2007-11-07 09:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you bother? He is married, leave him alone. If his marriage is in trouble wait for him to end it before make a move on him. If he loves his wife you are out of luck. Try finding a man that is available.
2007-11-07 09:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by Queenie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋