I've been married for 7- 8 mths now. Our sex life seems boring. He doesnt want me as many as before.
Although we both still in love.
How can I spice thing up and make him pay more attention to me?
2007-11-07 08:49:44 · 13 answers · asked by 1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well I had the same problem but I am married for 5 months now. Talk to him. Wear small clothes in front of him. Buy Lingere, flavored lubricant and sex games. what i did i talk to him i said that it bothers me that our sex life is going down. he understands and now we are having sex almost every day.I am so happy that i talked to him. Try buying toys or different things.
2007-11-07 09:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been married a little over a year now...feel the same...
I feel like we women end up doing all the work to spice things up...everyone says wear something sexy, or surprise him or wutever....when is it my turn to be surprised? Why do we women have to do all the work?
2007-11-07 17:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both need to go out of thier way to give attention to the other. Go out of the way to do things to turn him on. Let each other know what yall want to try. When you are in the mood go out of the way to let him know you need the attention now. Wear something nice or touch him where he knows what you want.
2007-11-07 17:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want him to do. What would turn your on? Whatever it is there's a good chance he wants to do it too, but is afraid/to shy to say or ask.
To often women want men to guess at what's going to make them happy. They spend half their lives shooting men down and the other half talking about how their husbands don't know how to make them happy.
2007-11-07 17:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by MetalHeart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months deep here.....
It's ok but I am bored a little..............
He works tooooooooooo much and I work as well but he's not just working to pay mortage and bills he waste alot of money....... Otherwise I have no complaints I know he love me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sex is lowwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!! But we're both still happy!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-07 16:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him do your sister. Our your sister and you together every married mans dream
2007-11-07 17:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures, if you don't initiate the lure for your man he might have no desire to bite otherwise.
2007-11-07 16:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some day you'll wish he'd leave you alone.
2007-11-07 17:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New lingerie, different places, role play, new positions, pouncing him when he comes home…
2007-11-07 16:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Leah 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just take it
2007-11-07 17:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by livin the dream 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋