What is the best way to give my man a B-J?

Question

i really want this to be something he'll love. he has wanted me to give him one for a while but he feels dirty presuring me into it. i want to give him one though, so any tips?

Answer 1

I'm very experienced at this, an expert. Most of us Gay men usually are.
First of all, there are three main senses that must be satisfied, the Tactile, the Visual and the Auditory, in that order of importance. They are intigrated into a symphony of
pleasure producing sensations that will curl his toes.
Just a Note; this is the most unselfish act you can perform for him, he must be truly special to you. You will derrive your pleasure soley from his pleasure.
Start with the visual, your body and be seductive, actually kind of slutty. Then devote everything to him. He shouldn't be
doing anything for you other than maybe touching, poking and prodding. This is both Tactile and Visual.
If he isn't hard yet, suck him much like a baby sucks a nipple.
As he stiffens, moan in pleasure, you won't be able to speak as your mouth will be full. When he does achieve erection, look up at him seductively, it is such a turn on. Bob up and down making sure to curl your lips over your teeth to protect him from the sharp parts. Lightly rub and massage his balls with a free hand. When he is really stiff, take it out of your mouth and lick up one side of the shaft and then down the other side and repeat in the opposite direction, and give him a seductive glance.
Breath through your nose and take it out of your mouth to swallow any built up saliva to prevent gagging. Then take him in as deep as you can and bob for as long as you can hold your breath, then resume the bobbing action. While bobbing, use your tongue to lick around the shaft while it is in your mouth.
To finish him off, bob faster until he ejaculates, the shaft will pulsate as it does. Take it out of your mouth and allow some of the semen to squirt onto your face, it is a great visual turn on. Then give him a big French Kiss.
You might try a prostate massage with a finger to really shizzle his kanizzle. Some guys don't like it for various reasons, like it is so "gay" or they don't like their anus penetrated. Too bad, they are missing out. You can google the prostate massage to learn more about it. We Gay men
usually enjoy it.
Well good luck.

Answer 2

Ok, here is the secret to this: Use your hand.

- Hold your hand up to your mouth like you are holding a Bugle.
- Curl your lips in to cover the teeth
- As you are working him, only the tip goes into your mouth. The bulk of the stimulation is from your hand stroking him.
- Do NOT lock your lips around him when he finishes. Keep your mouth in a "O" shape and leave space around him for air. If you dont, you stand a good chance of Sputtering, choking, your eyes will bug out and you may jerk back and tear him with your teeth.

You have a lot more control and surface area to stroke him with your hand. You use your mouth, lips to nibble, lick. You are not trying to sprain your neck bobbing up and down. Stroke and tease.

You want to avoid looking squeamish/disgusted/shocked which is why I suggest you work up to it like this:

Learn to stroke him and have him finish on your chest. Pay attention to:

- How he likes to be stroked
- How hard & strong he outputs (this usually gags first timers)
- How many spasms he has.

When he is calming down, rub the tip of your finger in the fluid and take a small taste. Get used to it. Perhaps take some more so when you go all the way, it wont shock you.

If you are brave, and he is still hard, put him in your mouth afterwards and SOFTLY clean him off. (Now it is safe to close your lips around him). But the head is very sensitive for a while so don't play with it for a while.

This is a very loving, sensitive, wonderful act, but it is messy. Have paper towels handy and accept everything with a cheerful grin.

Answer 3

Have fun with. Lick it, suck it, feel around it. Really coordinate it. Really try not to bite or scrape your teeth against his penis. Remember suck not bite. Like a Popsicle (if you don't bite it). This position feels really good for the guy when done right. Try practicing on something or even his. Always put love into it. It's most important ingredient.

Answer 4

Well, you have to create a suction. It's not just about sticking the penis in your mouth and going up and down on it. Also, you have to avoid scratching his penis with your teeth.

Also, have you heard of the saying "practice makes perfect"? A b-j isn't going to be enjoyable unless it's done well. My suggestion to you is to start giving him a b-j on a regular basis, so that way you'll learn how to do it well.

Answer 5

well theres only one way to do a bj.

get in there and suck that thing.

go in an up and down motion.

maybe use your hand to play with his balls.


you have to know how to use your tongue too.


oh. and one more thing..

try not to grind your teeth on his d.ick while giving him the bj. it hurts. trust me.

maybe practice with a banana?
if you see grind marks on the banana or if the banana breaks off (lol).. then its time to peel another banana and practice more.

:)


*for more info, email me.

Answer 6

Lick b al ls, tongue his a s s, lick his shaft, deep throat until you feel yourself choking, use your hand on the shaft while sucking on the head..

Answer 7

Put some love into it.

Answer 8

kind of difficult to give you pointers on here, that's something better described by e-mails

Answer 9

Is this even a mens health issue?

Answer 10

Watch a movie with him and play "monkey see-monkey do".