Is it bad to want to be pregnant at 15 years of age?

Answer 1

It's not bad to "want" to be pregnant.

I had my first baby at 14. Young. It's so hard! Please wait till you're older and more mature.
If I could turn back time, I would have waited till I was older. I wouldn't change having my daughter for the world, I just would have enjoyed being a teen first.

Answer 2

Girl you would totally ruin your life! Having a baby is a big responsibility and one that a 15 year old can't handle. You wouldn't be able to go out with friends or have a baby that you knew that you would be with for the rest of your life. Your to young to even thing about settling down. I wait until I was 27 to have my first child and feel that I'm a better mother than I would have been at a younger age. At 15 you have nothing to give your child you would have to depend on everyone else to cloth and feed your child. And the last thing you want to do is live of the state because you will get know where in life. You need to wait until you can give your child the best life possible because all children deserve that!

Answer 3

I would say it's not really that bad if you love the person that you had sex with and he's man enough to face whatever happens. But if you just want to have a baby well I say hell no! 15 years is very young. I remember when I was 15 (not so long ago) I also want to have a family already. But now, I thought that having a baby, and marriage, is a big responsibility and almost all people that you would ask will definitely tell you to enjoy your teenage life because if you have a baby, you can't party, you can't go out if you want, you can't do anything you want because you already have a responsibility. And in such an early age you wouldn't want that. I would say go out, meet interesting people, if you really want to have sex, then why not. But make sure you use birth controls because I swear, at age 15, at the back of your mind when you are nursing your baby and your friends hang out and you can't go out, you will say, "I shouldn't have done it."

Answer 4

I've been wanting to get pregnant from 13 or 14. I am 20 now I am finally having my child. Keep in mind that it's always best to settle down with a good guy, finish college, get a career, save some money and then everything will be peachy. I really don't want you to find out how difficult it can be at 15 so enjoy your childhood. A lot of teenagers are deprived of that because they had a baby at such a young age. Congrats when you do have a baby (you have plenty of time)

Answer 5

No it's not bad to want a baby at any age! However a baby is a big responsibility for anyone, but especially someone at the age of 15. I have always wanted a baby since a young age. It was if I needed someone else to depend on me you know. My best advice to you would be to adopt a kitten or a puppy. They are a big responsibility, but not nearly as big as a baby. As your pet and you get older and you find the right person then think about having a baby. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

Yes, You are a baby yourself. You have plenty of time to get pregnant when you a re a little older. Pregnancy is like sex for the first time, there is no going back. You should be thinking about school your friends and what shoes to wear! Not babies. Every time you think you want to be pregnant ask yourself...How will I provide for the child, can I still finish school, and can I get a job at 15. You will have No freedom for the next 18 years.

Answer 7

It's not bad to want a baby when your 15, but you shouldn't go out and have a baby at 15 just cause you want one. It is so much harder then you think it will be. You need to make sure you having a loving home, money to raise a baby, and a good job.
I was 17 when I had my first son, so I know how hard it is to raise a baby when your young.

Answer 8

Having a baby is a life long responsibility. I know that at age 18 I wanted to have a baby, so did my boyfriend but an education was just and is just way more important. You need to finish up your education, have a good job, and be with someone who loves you. Dont go around TRYING to have a baby.
In time. Trust me. You'll see that having a baby isnt what you may think it is. My mom had a baby when I was 18 & I saw it first hand what its like to have a baby around.
Your young. Be safe.

Answer 9

It would make your life very difficult if you had a baby right now. I am eighteen and pregnant and am still definitely way too young, but I atleast have a job and my fiance has a job and we can support the baby. It isn't fair to your parents or guardians for you to reproduce now, because they would end up taking care of it atleast financially and it would definitely put a strain on your school work, and without doing well in school it will be very difficult to get a good job where you make enough money to support another life.

Answer 10

Its perfectly normal, its caused by hormones that are kicked in high gear at your age. Your maternal instinct is getting reved up.

However, the world today has not prepared you for raising a child, nor is your body prepared to create and birth and care for one as best as it can- let alone keep itself healthy.

If you want kids this is the time in your life where you make that your goal, and then do what it takes to get there. Learn how to make money, work with kids, nanny, take courses in child care, perfect your relationships and your level of maturity, and then when you are legally old enough start looking for someone who can be your help mate in that life.

Theres more to making babies than wanting them, they have no choice in the matter beyond the choices to make for them. So make the best ones. Babies need real families, and real daddies, and real futures, and real opportunities. Do the best you can for them now, so when they are here they'll be heads and shoulders above the rest.

Answer 11

It's not "bad" per se but irresponsible. You need to think about how you will support the baby both financially and emotionally. You need to think about yourself - what are your goals for life, what do you want to accomplish? And maybe think about why you feel this need right now? Are you looking for love or someone to love? All things come in time. It's hard to see that when you're so young but you really do have many many years ahead of you. Just enjoy your life as it is now - a carefree teenager.