im 16 and am scared wut my parent would say
plz help
2007-11-07 06:52:16 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should definitely tell them. I hope that they choose to support you in whatever choices you decide to make around your pregnancy. Do not let them force you into a decision you do not like.
2007-11-07 06:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by memyselfandI 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get tested several times to be a 100% sure that you are pregnant. If your not, talk to your parents about getting some birthcontrol. Two forms of BC is best, like condoms and the pill. That way you have close to 100% protection and control over your body. If your are definetly pregnant, you're going to have to tell them. If your baby is not too far along a abortion would not be a bad idea since you are too young to get yourself into such a predicament. If not, then your going to need prenatal care soon! Tell your parents, if not for yourself, but for the growing life inside you! Do NOT make the mistake my cousins ex-girlfriend did! {She denied being pregnant, never told anyone and starved her self to stay thin. When the baby was born, it was severly deformed and brain damaged}
2007-11-07 07:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by handlebar knocker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but it's not something you can really hide. Be prepared for what will happen when you tell your parents (have a back up plan). Your parents will be disappointed but they shouldn't turn their back on you. We just found out my daughter is pregnant and I have to say I was worried about how her dad would take it. He doesn't like it either, but she needs us more now than ever. Regardless of what she has done, we love her. We are sorry that it will put a crimp in her life plans, but what's done is done and you have to go on from there. Good luck and tell your parents ASAP.
2007-11-07 06:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to tell your parents immediately. Don't you think they will realize there is something wrong when your clothes don't fit anymore and your stomach is getting bigger? Best to tell them now instead of them finding out on their own or from someone else. Explain to them that you made a horrible mistake and whatever you do, do not let them convince you to get an abortion! It's murder and you can give the baby up for adoption if they don't want you to keep it!
2007-11-07 06:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by armygirl8708 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell your story to your folks. Include how you feel about your guy and if you think the two of you will remain togeather. Don't wait . It is better to tell now than hold secrets. They may flip but they will calm down sometime.
Then they can lead you in deciding how things will be handled. If you have goals for the future let your folks know that you may still want to reach those goals.
best wishes
2007-11-07 06:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm ... its up to you really ... if you want to keep the baby then you have to tell them ... if your not keeping it then honestly you dont have to tell them .. i dont mean to be abad influence but i got pregnant at 17 i was living with my boyfriend and we decided to have an abortion. Its been 3 years and my parents Still dont know .... If your gonna get an abortion and decide not to tell them then make sure you have a place to stay ... youll be VERY sleepy and in a bit of pain but that will stop the next day so you will be well enough to go to school.
Good luck to yea!
2007-11-07 08:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Nuk-Shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You need to tell them. They will find out even if you don't tell them. Honesty is best. I was scared to tell my father that I was pregnant, and I am 23, due in 2 weeks. They may be mad or upset at first, but just remember that you are their daughter and they will love you and the baby no matter what.
2007-11-07 06:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by phoenix_02_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course. Don't you think they are going to find out anyway.
And it's virginity and pregnant. Not verginaty and pregnante. Sorry.
2007-11-07 06:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by tn2vegas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell your parents, it's only a matter of months before it's obvious. After you give your baby up for adoption; you should focus on returning to school and taking extra credit classes in English & Sex Education.
2007-11-07 06:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Tigerbabe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I suggest you wait until the baby is born and is at least 18 years old...............
Of course you need to tell your parents. The time to worry about what they will say is before you become pregnant. That way, you would use better judgment and not get in that condition.
2007-11-07 06:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to tell your parents. They will most likely be mad at first but they will change after a while. They should help you because you are their daughter. Do not go too long before telling them.
2007-11-07 06:56:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋