Why do women want larger breast?

Question

My wife is always telling me that she want to get a boob job. I told her that I think she looks great and dosen't need it but she is seriously interested in getting it done. My concern is that I don't want her to change and I'm worried about the pain that she will have. Also I have heard that she can loos sensations and might not be happy with the end result. She is 4-9 & 100 lbs. and is about A cup but wants to go to a large B or small C.
Any advise would be greatly be appreciated.

Answer 1

You should respect her wishes as she seems to value yours by sharing her feelings. It sound like you are being a good husband by being concerned about her well being, however, you shoud both go talke to the Dr. together and get some real answers. Also, be careful with whom you chose for the as you get what you pay for and since its her body you will want the best for her.

Answer 2

I think women want bigger breasts for the same reason that people want to be skinny, or really muscular, or really good looking. There's this image we have in our minds of what looks good, and part of your wife's mental image of what looks good would involve larger breasts.

Really, truly, honestly think about your concerns - Why don't you want your wife to change? Are you afraid she will get more attention from other guys? Are you afraid she will leave you? Are you really worry about the pain?? (My best friend got a boob job, she was in a lot of pain for a few days, but it goes away, and they give you medicine to control it.)

Now, having said all that. If she is really interested in getting a boob job maybe she should speak with a Dr. about the risks, etc. If you two go to a good Dr. they will not let her go larger than what her body can handle or make her look unnatural, they will usually suggest a size that would look "good" on the patient.

Good luck :)

Answer 3

I think women probably get boob jobs to look better in their clothes and or also to feel better about themselves and the way they look. For a while I was thinking about that too but i'm actually ok with my body. I understand about you not wanting her to change but still it's her body and not yours and if she's dead set about wanting to get it, she will probably find a way to get it done. And as with all surgeries, there's always a risk one might not like the end result and this is just something she needs to know and keep in mind before taking the plunge on something as drastic as a boob job.

Answer 4

If it's something she really wants you should support her decision, I have heard depending on the method of putting in the implants you can lose sensation in the nipples. They can look good as long as you don't get them too big. I have also heard you have to get work done on them every certain amount of years which can be expensive. It's important for her to know your concerns about her having this done. Weigh out the positives and negatives with her but ultimately the decision is hers.

Answer 5

I know some chicks with small breasts that don't like them and I know know some others that don't seem to have a problem with it. I guess it's different for everyone. I, personally, like my boobs, they're proportionate to my body but I'm not intimated by women with bigger ones because sometimes boobs can be a little too big :/

Answer 6

I've heard that a lot and I've experience that feeling myself...we usually think that you guys prefer bigger boobs in a woman.
Why? Because we keep hearing the guys saying: hey, buddy look at those big teets...and stuff like that. The fashion, magazines, television, music videos and all that keep worshiping the girls with bigger boobs. So those who don't have that characteristic just say...should I look for it too to be better appreciated as a woman? Or is it just something I have to learn to live with?
So I'd recommend you to tell your wife when you're making love with her: hey darling, haven't I told you how beautiful your breasts are? Do I have to tell you again that your body drives me crazy and that everytime I make love to you I feel complete? You are beautiful, you are my princess...
Those are my recommendations. You need to make her feel like she's the most beautiful woman in your eyes and that whatever breast size she has, you love her body as well as her inside.
Good luck!

Answer 7

To each it's own, but perhaps she just wants this to make her feel more attractive. It's not that she needs to hear you think she is, but maybe she just thinks it would make her look better. It sounds like she is a smaller person to begin with, so going too big might look funny on her. But a good doctor would show her the sizes that would compliment her body type. As long as she knows your concerns, that's all you can do.

Answer 8

Well...society does have a way of making women feel less than, when they don't have all the assets that Hollywood makes so important.

Then again, some women do it, because they like the way their clothes fit and just feel more self confident about themselves You just never know. Ask her why exactly she feels the need to do this and make sure that she knows about all the risks involved before going through with the actual procedure. Best wishes to you and your wife.

-Knowledge24

Answer 9

I think many women feel inadequate regarding their breast size as a result of the media, particularly television, that equates sexiness with breast size. The same can be said for men who are led to feel inadequate as a result of watching those moronic "Smiling Bob" commercials.

There are may men, myself included, that much prefer smaller to moderate breasts. My wife, who is large (naturally,) has often wished she could afford a reduction -as after age 45-50, Newtons laws of gravity begin to mainefst themselves.

Answer 10

The concern that you have about the sensation thing is valid, my wife had a reduction done, less hassles than a increase, she has lost all sensation in one of her nipple and some in the other. However, in some cases the up side to this is that her attitude towards herself and towards me and our sexual activity's improved because she felt better about herself. The psychological aspect must be kept in mind.